Boobs and balls
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Posted:Dec 9, 2019 3:22 pm
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I wonder if women play with their boobs the same way men play with their balls.
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Why I love mature women
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Posted:Apr 1, 2015 10:28 pm
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This is a great column by Erica Jagger and perfectly sums up why I love mature women. It's a very inspiring read for women of any age. ------------------------------------------------------- I was tortured by sex when I was a young woman.
I went from being an awkward, skinny bookworm to a curvy 16-year-old almost overnight. I wasn't used to attracting male attention and I felt simultaneously powerful and powerless.
Powerful because, after years of feeling invisible, I was suddenly a siren. It was intoxicating to be able to turn the heads of boys and men simply by walking down the street. My budding sexual charisma masked my sense of not belonging anywhere. Whenever the "you're not good enough" harpies whispered in my ear, I could dull their voices by amping up my charm.
But really, I felt powerless. I felt ashamed of my sexual urges, ashamed of attracting attention, and ashamed of the fact that my impulses propelled me into sexual encounters for which I wasn't emotionally prepared, and which gave me the false impression that my sex appeal was the only thing about me of any value. I grew up in a home where no one talked about sex, so I had nowhere to go for guidance.
The sex I had as a young woman was exciting, but not fulfilling.
I was too focused on what I looked like, or trying to send a guy into orbit, to be present and enjoy the sex I was having. I wasn't in charge of my sexuality; my dependence on external validation was in charge of me.
But that all changed at 50 when my marriage ended, and the world that I'd known blew apart. Hard knocks will either destroy you, or develop your character. In my case, they did the latter. I stopped caring that I didn't have a house and a ring on my finger. I made a decision that I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than be in a relationship where I couldn't be myself.
My libido, long dormant during my marriage, returned with a vengeance.
I found it surprisingly easy to date. Stepping into my sexuality a second time, this late in life, was a truly powerful experience. I led with my confidence instead of my appearance. My desire to please a man sexually came from generosity and maturity, not from a selfish attempt to make myself feel worthy.
Once I stopped needing a man's stamp of approval, I was finally able to be present in bed. I could say what I wanted. My shame melted away and I began to embrace my sexual urges and sexual persona. Finally, I was in charge of my sexuality.
I couldn't have known at 20 what I know at 50 -- an age when the culture would have women believe that their best sex is behind them. The only person who can give or take away your sexual power is you.
It took 50 years for my self-image and beliefs about sex to crystallize; these 11 things are what I know to be true.
1. Don't listen to anyone who tries to shame you for your sexual expression. Being a sexually assertive woman doesn't mean you're a "slut." Your sexuality is a gift to be cherished.
2. Buy sexy lingerie for yourself. You don't need to wait to be in a relationship. And don't leave home without it.
3. Do a boudoir shoot. You don't need to wait for a significant other. Do it for yourself. And hang your pictures on the wall.
4. Stop worrying about the shape of your breasts, gravity's effects on your body, and your menopausal vagina. Time, experience, and the wisdom acquired after five decades have made you a better lover in your 50s than you were in your 20s.
5. Listen to your fantasies. You don't necessarily have to act on them. Sharing them with a trusted partner will deepen intimacy. And sometimes they're good for a laugh.
6. Embrace your sexual preferences. A hankering for beyond-vanilla sex, or a desire to be claimed, doesn't make you damaged goods or a scourge to womankind. But always give your consent. As a grown woman who commandeers her own ship, you have the power to say yes or no.
7. Lead with your maturity, not your appearance. Good looks only get you so far. Confidence makes you desirable over the long haul. Men and/or women will still find you sexy when you're upwards of fifty. Maybe even more so because you're 50. Yes, really.
8. Cross off items on your sexual bucket list. Younger men? A threesome? Tying up or tying down? Going to a sex club? As long as no one gets hurt, seize the day!
9. Be transparent about your desires and intentions. You can have great sex with people you don't love and shouldn't try to love. Don't attempt to manufacture a significant relationship out of one that isn't. It really is okay to like casual sex, as long as you're honest about what you want.
10. Ignore menopause horror stories and stale cultural narratives. Your years of hot sex are not behind you! You will most likely still want sex, and in fact may even want it more, or enjoy it more, than when you were younger.
11. Believe that you can find love after 50. Even if it's for the first time. It makes sense when you think about it: you're better now than you've ever been.
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When I don't have a partner, I watch porn
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Posted:Jan 23, 2015 7:53 pm
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I don't understand why in most porn videos the woman gets the cum shot on her face. I'm willing to guess that most ladies don't want it there, but I guess many men like to see that.
Why? Is it humiliation or a power thing?
Plus, I hear it burns when it gets in your eyes.
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My Favorite Position?
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Posted:Nov 2, 2007 9:12 pm
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2015 7:49 pm
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Cowgirl. Woman on Top. Merry-Go-Round.
Why? Because, in most cases, it gives her the most pleasure, and I get to watch the expressions on her face.
I also get to take a break from being Mr. piston (sort of anyway, I still thrust a bit but only in a supporting role). Sometimes I surprise her by lifting her in the air with my hips, adding pressure on her sweet spot.
My hands are free to gently caress her lovely, beautiful breasts. Oh, so nice!
I also like to do a sit-up to give her nipples some lip and tongue service, and kiss her chest between her breasts. Then I wrap my arms around her and pull her down while I lay on my back, kissing her, rubbing her neck, stroking her back with my fingertips down to her sweet rear-end.
Nice.
Anyone else horny?
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Swingers are Growth Business for U.S. Firms
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Posted:Aug 20, 2007 9:11 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 4:34 am
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From ABC News:
LAS VEGAS (Reuters) - Matt Virtue, who works as a consultant at a Washington law firm, says he spends more than $10,000 a year to attend conventions, hotels and clubs where he and his girlfriend can have sex with other partners.
"Any other hobby that I was into at 40 years old is going to cost me $10,000," he said from a hot tub he was sharing with his girlfriend and a couple with whom they had been intimate the night before. "Dude, I'm addicted to it, there is no doubt about it."
Such enthusiasm has turned what were once private passions into a multimillion dollar business. Lifestyles Organization, the nation's largest swinger services company, has annual sales of about $15 million.
Swingers also bring in millions of dollars to specialty clubs and hotels in the United States as well as Jamaica, Mexico, France and elsewhere.
"We're talking about a lifestyle, but in reality we are also talking about a business," Robert McGinley, 73, the president of Lifestyles Organization, said during its annual convention in Las Vegas, which attracts about 900 couples.
Lifestyles Organization caters to a middle-class demographic who want to meet like-minded couples and who typically want to hide their passions from what they call "vanillas" (conventional couples).
Efforts to meet such couples outside those circles often fail, giving tour, club and convention organizers steady business.
Terri, 48, attending the convention from Boise, Idaho -- who asked that her last name not be published -- said she and her husband of 21 years spend as much as $8,000 a year on several weeks of swinging vacations and club visits.
At this year's event, Anaheim, California-based Lifestyles Organization contracted out an entire hotel near the Las Vegas Strip and organized seminars and parties for middle-aged couples.
The most exhibitionist of those gathered in open hotel rooms after midnight to have sex as others watched or joined in. Some couples made small talk as they were engaged in sex, including one man who boasted that his was in medical school.
"The other night I looked up and there were five or six people looking," said Terri, who retired from the U.S. Air Force two years ago. "I'm glad I was giving them a good show."
"I've had three (lovers) in the past 24 hours."
Leading sex researchers say they do not know the number of swingers in the United States, so it is difficult to pinpoint how much business the subculture represents overall.
Rick Conner, a swinger and author of an advice book for such couples, estimates there are 100,000 U.S. swingers, of whom 20,000 are particularly active. Other swingers have suggested the number is in the low millions.
PLEASE, NO SEX IN THE RESTAURANT
Despite the unusual focus of the convention, McGinley shares the bottom-line concerns of many businessmen.
"In business there is risk and you have to decide is it a reasonable risk or not," he said. "Behind the scenes there is a lot of planning that goes into this and a lot of going over financials, financials of the past and what is the current situation."
He said couples paid a registration fee of $690, out of which $200 covered costs, leaving an overall profit of more than $400,000. Couples pay additionally for hotel rooms and flight costs.
Lifestyles Organization faced a few unusual incidents. His staff had to halt one couple from engaging in a sex act inside the Tuscany Suites restaurant.
Conventions bring Lifestyles $4 million in annual sales; their travel business booking swinging guests into resorts such as Hedonism II in Jamaica or Desire in Mexico bring in another $10 million to $12 million a year, McGinley said.
"We relax our already liberal rules to accommodate the Lifestyles Organization and make the entire resort clothing-optional," explained Richard Bourke, general manager of Hedonism II.
He said Lifestyles Organization books $2 million of rooms a year over six contracted weeks. Hedonism II staff are barred from intimate relations with the guests and some have been fired for violating the edict, Bourke said.
"You have resorts with big-name resort companies that are catering to it," McGinley said. "They're not into swinging at all, but they are into making money, and we're the ones that provide the for them."
Desire Resort and Spa in Los Cabos, Mexico opened in November with a focus on the swinging market. About half of the guests are active swingers, according to Jesus Prado Leal, a receptionist.
Several hundred clubs nationwide also cater to swingers. Jeff James, who works for Club Freedom Acres in San Bernardino County east of Los Angeles, said 225 to 260 couples visit on a typical Saturday night, paying $85 each, with a similar number on Fridays paying $65. "It's doubled in daily attendance in the last three years," he said.
Swinging also boosts ancillary services such as breast enhancements and erectile dysfunction drugs. "Viagra is definitely part of the adult scene," said Deborah, a 52-year old aesthetician grandmother from Dallas, Texas, who asked that her last name not be used. "Instead of four stars before, it's probably five stars now."
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Bisexual Until Graduation?
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Posted:Aug 16, 2007 7:29 pm
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2007 9:12 pm
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Pop culture loves the recreational lesbian -- the woman who dabbles but doesn't stay the course.
Lesbian turncoat Anne Heche left comedian Ellen DeGeneres for a man. Lush-lipped Angelina Jolie last week swore off former S&M mates and girlfriends in deference to her relationship with the uber-masculine Brad Pitt.
And Britney Spears, of the televised Madonna kiss, is now the subject of tabloid rumors for reputed dalliances with female porn stars and loyal personal assistant Shannon Funk.
The stars who flaunt their so-called lesbian status then change their minds may make it difficult for a new generation of young women who reject the dogmatic definitions of sexuality.
The Label Problem
Young bisexual women face urban labels like "hasbien" and "Bug" (bisexual until graduation), not to mention the giddy voyeurism of male fantasies and the ridicule of their lesbian sisters.
For many of today's women in their late teens and 20s, openness to intimate physical relationships with either gender has become a way of life, rather than an "experiment." This relatively new phenomenon is likely a product of a generation unconcerned with labels.
"These young women see sexuality as a fluid thing," said National Gay and Lesbian Task Force spokeswoman Roberta Sklar. "It's not just between your legs."
"These relationships are physical, emotional and intellectual, and the boundaries are not hard set," she said.
Although there are no hard data on the numbers, Sklar said a growing number of young women have a "more flexible view" of their sexual partners, and their early choices of gender may not be a "fixed path."
"I know a woman who had relationships of depth with members of both sexes," said Sklar. "She didn't put a tag on what her sexuality identity was. Recently, I saw her at her wedding to a young, lovely man. In no way does she deny her history or say she has found her true sexuality. It was all her true sexuality."
Coming Out Was Difficult
Such is the case with Emma, now a 26-year-old Philadelphia law student who is in a serious relationship with her boyfriend of 18 months. But at 19, she had "come out" as a lesbian and had a five-year romance with a woman.
Emma said she was attracted to women in high school, but the topic was still taboo and she was afraid that confiding in friends would make them uncomfortable. When she reached college, she acknowledged her sexuality and fell in love with a woman.
"It was a difficult process, but once I was out and gay, I thought I would never date men again," she said. "But then we broke up, and I started dating a man. It was really strange and I was surprised. It's not what I expected at all."
Today some people trivialize her experience, saying, "You were young and stupid and didn't know what you were doing."
But Emma said being gay has been a powerful part of her identity, and the non-gay community is quick to point fingers. She also finds it difficult to maintain ties to the lesbian community, which is equally judgmental.
"It sounds like being gay was just an experimental phase," Emma said. "But that relationship was significant, and I might do it again."
When women exploit the shock value of bisexuality, they discount deep, loving relationships, she said. The sensational headlines about Britney Spears, who was born the same year as Emma, may only reinforce anti-gay stereotypes.
"I can't say what her sexual preferences are," said Emma. "You go into a bar and see girls making out with girls just to get the guys excited. But that is different from the women who fall in love with other women and take their relationships seriously."
Bisexual Until Graduation?
Often it is in the enlightened college cocoon where women discover their sexuality, said Kaaren Williamsen-Garvey, director of the Gender and Sexuality Center at Carleton College in Minnesota.
"Identity politics are alive and well on college campuses," she said. In the 1990s, women used to joke about "lesbian until graduation," but now students are less judgmental and try to avoid the inevitable labels.
"In college it's normal for to push boundaries and roles and play around with questions of sexuality and gender," Williamsen-Garvey said. "But bisexuality is rooted in a culture based on two sexes and doesn't account for transgender, so many don't like the term. It's inherently complicated."
"Sexuality is not black and white, it's along a spectrum," said Williamsen-Garvey. "Sometimes it appears that students flirt with bisexuality and retreat. When they leave college the feelings and desires may still be there, but then they couple up."
Searching for a clear orientation after college, women usually end up identifying as lesbians or heterosexuals rather than continuing with a bisexual identity, she said.
"It's hard to maintain bisexual identity without a community [of support]."
More Acceptance, More Expression
Is it possible that seeing the the stars' same sex dalliances splashed on tabloid covers could actually help ease sexual taboos?
Bisexuality is really not a new concept, but today's social acceptance has allowed women to express their sexuality more openly, according to NGLTF's Sklar.
And the stars of today aren't necessarily bisexual trailblazers. Historians and feminists have analyzed relationships like those of Eleanor Roosevelt and others who had husbands as well as deep friendships with women.
After the anguish of her husband's affair with Lucy Mercer, Eleanor Roosevelt may have had two erotic relationships -- one with Earl Miller, a New York state trooper who became her body guard, and another with reporter Lorena Hickok, according to a biography written by Blanche Wiesen Cook.
"There is less taboo now in intimacy between the sexes," said Sklar. "But it's puzzling to me if it was always going on, or if it's now part of a post-feminist revolution."
"When I was younger and went to college, women were close to one another, but I look at my teenage today and see a tremendous closeness between girls that does not translate into sexual intimacy," said Sklar.
"But," she added, "we are seeing something out there that is different than what we have seen before."
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Are Open Marriages More Successful Than Traditional Ones?
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Posted:Aug 10, 2007 9:11 pm
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2009 5:31 pm
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By RUSSELL GOLDMAN Aug. 10, 2007
To many, "open marriage" is a phrase so laden with 1970s nostalgia that the idea can't be considered without imagining its practitioners leering at each other across shag-carpeted conversation pits, their chest hair spilling out of maroon polyester leisure suits.
While many of today's adherents are aging swingers from the old school, a new generation -- well organized and committed to legitimizing a lifestyle -- continues to push traditional notions of marital fidelity by having sex with people other than their spouses.
But do marriages -- fragile institutions traditionally built on the fidelity and sexual intimacy of two people -- work when the doors of the bedroom are thrown wide open?
"That's like asking if monogamy works," Deborah Anapol, a psychologist and author of "Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits" told ABC NEWS.com. "Sometimes it does, and sometimes it doesn't. It depends almost entirely on the people involved and their willingness to tell the truth and do the work."
"Polyamory," which literally means "many loves" is a new name for an old practice.
"There were a few studies on open marriage in the early '60s and '70s, but the phenomenon seemed to die out and it was just called cheating after that," said William Doherty, a professor of sociology at the University of Minnesota.
"It resurfaced as polyamory, and some groups have imbued it with a spiritual side. They see it as a pathway to personal development. They see it as a high road; it's not cheating, it's growing their relationship," he said.
In 1972, George and Nena O'Neill published "Open Marriage: Love Without Limits," the first book to define the practice and counsel couples on how to grow their own relationships by creating friendships and sexual relationships with other people.
Ten years later, acclaimed journalist Gay Talese would publish "Thy Neighbor's Wife," an experiential look at American sexual mores between the sexual revolution and the AIDS epidemic.
In the book, Talese describes operating a in New York City, attending nudist camps and having an extramarital affair.
Though Talese told ABC NEWS.com.that his 50-year marriage to his wife, book editor Nan Talese, was not open, the popularity of "Thy Neighbor's Wife" led many Americans to re-evaluate long held ideas about sexual morality, obscenity and fidelity.
It is difficult to determine just how many married people are involved in open marriages. A study from the 1980s suggested it could be as many as 6 percent of all couples, but most experts believe that number is excessively high.
"At least 95 percent of married and cohabitating Americans expect sexual exclusivity," said Judy Treas, a sociology professor at the University of California at Irvine.
As for the success of open marriages, "there have been no scientific evaluations of how well open marriages work," Treas said. "The jury is still out."
Despite the small niche, there is a thriving industry built around the polyamorous. Self-help books, specialized marriage counselors, and retreats, which include everything from courses in Eastern philosophy to the chance to hook up with strangers, are targeted at people in open marriages.
Traditional marriage counselors typically tell polyamorous couples who are having problems with their marriage that it is the sex with other people that is causing their problems, but therapists like Dossie Easton who co-wrote"The Ethical Slut," disagreed.
Easton said polyamorous marriages were no more or less successful than monogamous marriages, but at least the polyamorous were never surprised to learn their spouse was cheating.
She said openly married couples saw her "for the same problems that traditional therapists deal with. Only traditional therapists tell polyamorous couples if they gave up being polyamorous, then they'd be happy."
Problems, she said, occur when spouses have different ideas about how polyamory should work.
"Sometimes one wants to have sex with strangers, and the other wants more meaningful relationships outside the marriage. Others want to join groups of likeminded people, [which] I call pods or constellations, where sometimes -rearing responsibilities are shared."
The biggest challenge polyamorous couples seem to face is jealousy.
A whole chapter of "Open Marriage," the first polyamorous handbook is devoted to managing feelings of jealousy.
"Jealousy is inevitable just like anger is inevitable. All couples get jealous often for no good reason, but jealousy can be managed. If people are emotionally intelligent they work to manage their jealousy," Anapol said.
Polyamory, Polygamy and Friends With Benefits
Open marriage differs from polygamy in that it is legal, except in those states with extremely rigid anti-adultery laws. Unlike polygamy, in an open marriage both spouses agree to allow each other to have extramarital affairs and relationships can extend to people outside of a formally bound group.
In the open marriages of the 1970s, couples would often set rigid rules about whom they would allow to engage in sex with their partners.
Couples would meet in sex clubs or private parties and swap partners. These relationships were almost always purely sexual, and temporary lovers were rarely introduced to spouses.
Contemporary practitioners of polyamory have changed the rules, and in many cases thrown them out all together, said Dossie Easton.
According to Easton, polyamory is as much a reflection of changes in '70s-style open marriages as it is a reflection of broad changes in attitudes about casual sex. "There has been a real change in attitudes," Easton said. "We used to make a huge notion that if you picked up someone at a singles bar and didn't want to marry them in the morning you shambled out of their house."
"Nowaday, we have all kinds of open sexual connections with people that we call friends that we are not auditioning for marriage."
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The Official 237 Reasons Why We Have Sex
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Posted:Aug 8, 2007 10:17 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 4:34 am
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New research published in the August issue of Archives of Sexual Behavior has come up with a list of 237 reasons that motivate people to have sex.
Here are the top ten along with some commentary:
1. I was "in the heat of the moment." (Ah, yes...some of the best sex comes from such moments.)
2. It just happened. (Just happened? A car accident just happens. How do you just happen to engage someone in sex?)
3. I was bored. (How romantic. "Honey, I'm so bored, I'm just about to have sex with you.")
4. It just seemed like "the thing to do." (That excuse never works in divorce court.)
5. Someone dared me. (Must be how Britney Spears and K-Fed hooked up.)
6. I desired emotional closeness (i.e., intimacy). ('Nuff said.)
7. I wanted to feel closer to God. (But what if you're an atheist?)
8. I wanted to gain acceptance from friends. (So why not just dress like them instead of screwing them?)
9. It's exciting, adventurous. ('Nuff said.)
10. I wanted to make up after a fight. (Not a good idea when the fight is with the boss.)
Some of the rest are, to say the least, interesting:
11. I wanted to get rid of aggression. (Maybe Bush and Saddam Hussein should've had some hot manlove...would have saved thousands of lives.)
17. I felt like I owed it to the person. (A new twist on bartering.)
23. The person was famous and I wanted to be able to say I had sex with him/her. (But that doesn't even work for Michael Jackson.)
30. I was married and you're supposed to. (That's one lucky spouse. Was that a line item in the prenuptial?)
31. I was tired of being a virgin. (I've used that as a pickup line. Hasn't worked yet.)
35. Everyone else was having sex. (See above comment.)
38. I wanted to ensure the relationship was "committed." (Imagine if they did that instead of making you sign something. Would make buying a house an interesting experience.)
45. I wanted to display submission. (So does that mean that if my cat or rolls over...)
49. I wanted to end the relationship. (?????)
57. It would get me gifts. (But if you didn't like it, how would you exchange it?)
60. The person was "available." (Hasn't worked for me!)
66. I wanted to "possess" the person. (An idea never used for a sequel to "The Exorcist.)
76. I wanted to manipulate him/her into doing something for me. (So that's why the used car salesman was humping my leg.)
79. I wanted the person to feel good about himself/herself. (Sounds like sex for charity. Is that a tax deduction? IRS Form 6969.)
98. The person demanded that I have sex with him/her. (That sounds like a felony.)
100. I wanted to see what it would be like to have sex while stoned (e.g., on marijuana or some other drug). (The problem with that is you don't remember anything afterwards.)
102. I wanted to increase the number of sex partners I had experienced. (Works for Ron Jeremy.)
111. I wanted to decrease my partner's desire to have sex with someone else. (Now there's a trusting relationship.)
131. It seemed like good exercise. (Then why isn't porn in the video store's exercise section?)
139. I wanted to boost my self-esteem. (Costs less than an hour of professional therapy.)
146. I wanted to enhance my reputation. (Ain't working for Britney Spears.)
151. I wanted to achieve an orgasm. (That's what batteries are for.)
160. I wanted to change the topic of conversation. (WTF?)
167. I wanted to get a favor from someone. ("The Godfather" movies in bizzaro-world.)
170. I wanted to breakup another's relationship. (And that's how they ended up on Springer.)
178. I wanted to hurt an enemy. (Gives a literal meaning to Make Love, Not War.)
180. It is my genetic imperative. (Charles Darwin's pickup line.)
181. It was an initiation rite to a club or organization. (Where do I sign up?!)
188. I wanted to welcome someone home. ("Aunt Betsy! It's so good to see you again."
198. I thought it would boost my social status. (Didn't work for Pauly Shore.)
199. The person had a lot of money. (The only way Donald Trump gets any tail.)
200. The person's physical appearance turned me on. (This is number 200?!)
201. The person was a good dancer. (A curse for us white guys.)
218. I had not had sex in a long time. (That reason works for me...like...never.)
221. I saw the person naked and could not resist. (Dick Cheney's secret.)
226. The person had too much to drink and I was able to take advantage of him/her. (This is number 226?!)
231. I wanted to reproduce. (How romantic.)
....and at the bottom of the list: 237. I wanted to make my partner feel powerful. (Maybe Laura Bush should fuck her hubby more often.)
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Making Love to a Friend with Benefits?
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Posted:Aug 3, 2007 9:33 pm
Last Updated:Apr 4, 2015 8:45 pm
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I miss the whole experience of lovemaking. I'm not much into simple, mechanical fucking, even though once in a while the mood strikes. I love to touch, caress, embrace, kiss, nibble, lick, moan and penetrate with sincerity and patience. But is this too much with a friend? It sounds like something you would only do with someone you were in love with. I wouldn't want to send the wrong signal to someone.
What are your experiences and thoughts?
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What's worse - Infidelity or overeating?
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Posted:Jul 6, 2007 10:05 pm
Last Updated:Jul 12, 2007 8:59 pm
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I'm always interested in people's attitude towards sex. The following story shows the cultural differences between America and Europe when it comes to infidelity: ------------------------------------------ ROME (Reuters) - Most Italians feel more guilty about over-eating than they do about cheating on their partners, a survey has found, suggesting that people in Casanova’s native land care more about staying slim than staying faithful.
The survey, by psychology magazine Riza Psicosomatica, found that excessive eating and spending topped the list of what people considered the most guilt-inducing vices.
Sexual infidelity came bottom of the list of the magazine’s ’seven deadly sins’, behind neglecting friends and family, failing at work and not looking after one’s physique.
The survey of some 1,000 Italians aged 25-55 found that religion played little part in determining what made people feel guilty, despite Italy’s Roman Catholic traditions.
Only 7 percent of those questioned said religious rules induced guilt. The most powerful drivers of guilty feelings were the judgment of loved ones or the disapproval of society as a whole.
That’s because it’s supposedly easier to resist food than sex. --------------------------------------- Another example - During Bill Clinton's Zippergate, many Europeans couldn't understand what the fuss was about. Many of their political leaders have interesting personal lives, but they never get run out of town with torches and pitchforks.
Maybe I was born in the wrong country.
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Thank you, summer !!
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Posted:Jun 2, 2007 4:17 pm
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2007 7:14 pm
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How do I love thee summer, let me count the ways:
Tank tops (on women, of course)
Exposed upper chests and necks (an erogenous zone for some)
Maybe some cleavage
Tender underarms (another Zone)
Arms with a bit of peachfuzz
Shorts (on women)
Short shorts (definitely on women!!)
Legs...shapely, smooth legs - the sum and the parts: Thighs, inner thighs, knees, back of the knees (erogenous zone) calves, ankles, feet (another Zone)
skin...beautiful, soft, textured skin. Such a gentle tease.
This grateful, appreciative man just wanted to say thanks.
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Study: In Nude Photos, Men Look at Faces First (!)
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Posted:Apr 13, 2007 6:46 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2007 7:45 pm
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From a study I found on a news Web site: ------------------------------ You might expect men and women to look at sexual photographs differently. But a new study unexpectedly found that men are more likely than women to first look at faces rather than other parts of a nude body.
Also, the women in the study spent more time than the men looking at images of couples having sex.
"Men looked at the female face much more than women, and both looked at the genitals comparably," said lead author Heather Rupp of the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction at Indiana University.
The findings, announced today, are detailed in the journal Hormones and Behavior.
"The eye-tracking data suggested what women paid most attention to was dependent upon their hormonal state," Rupp said. "Women using hormonal contraceptives looked more at the genitals, while women who were not using hormonal contraceptives paid more attention to contextual elements of the photographs." -------------------------------------
Yes, we men love a beautiful pair of.......eyes. And cheeks (the other kind). And lips (also the other kind).
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Smile! You're having sex!
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Posted:Apr 7, 2007 9:03 pm
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2007 8:28 pm
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Once I was with a woman who didn't understand why I was smiling and laughing during sex. Not laughing like a drunk hyena, just laughing out of fun and being happy. She kept thinking that I was laughing at her, which couldn't be further from the truth since she was so hot to be with.
I say this because some people seem so serious during sex...not a smile or sign of approval except for maybe a grunt during orgasm. I notice this while watching webcams of folks get it on.
Am I strange? I can't help but have at the very least a big smile on my face when I'm with a woman.
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