THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A MAN AND A BOY
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Posted:Nov 10, 2007 3:36 pm
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2010 5:45 pm
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Lately, I've encountered a lot of women that have expressed their disappointment to me when it comes to dealing with men. They usually call me with a Keyshia Cole song playing in the background complaining about how there are no good men left and that I'm the last of a dying breed! lol Now some of these women are female friends that I've known for years so everytime they call I know that it's about some drama with their boyfriend "Ray Ray," or "Twan," or "Tyrone." Half the time I don't even answer my phone because I'm tired of being Dr. Phil without getting paid the Dr. Phil money!
Not all of my female freiends are jaded but I do know quite a few who are angry from being in relationships in which they were dogged and mistreated. Therefore, I decided to write this blog for women who may not be aware that there are many "boys" out there who masquerade as "men." Basically, if you want a successful relationship, you have to learn how to separate the "men" from the "boys." I also want to say that the difference between a boy and a man is more than just physical. There's a mental, spiritual and intellectual difference.
To me, being a man has never been based solely on age. My definition of manhood has to do with maturity and responsibility. Being a man means accepting responsibility for my actions. Being a man means that I am mature and accountable. Furthermore, a real man, in my opinion, has God in his life. He works or owns his own business, puts his family first and provides for his . He owns land or is working towards purchasing a home. He is respectful but also has a low tolerance for ignorance and bullshit. Those are the characteristics of a real man. But how does one become a man? In this society, when you reach 18 you're considered an adult. But when I visited Ghana years ago, I learned that the community and elders determine who attains the status of adulthood. There is an African proverb that says," You are born male but rites of passage rituals are what transforms you into a man." In traditional African societies, there were rites of passage programs that taught young men how to become proficient carriers of their peoples culture. Unfortunately, we've lost that in the Black community. Historically, the Black church served as the community in which young people underwent rites of passage rituals but many of our youth don't go to church anymore. It's a sad and harsh reality that not every boy will make that transition into manhood.
I grew up in South Side of Chicago and I know a whole bunch of males that are a lot older than me that are still trying to be playas and pimps. These cats prey upon as many young women as possible. Some are even married! These dudes are in their late 30s and 40s, still livin' at home with their mama, driving a Chrysler 300 and still behaving like teenage boys! R. Kelly ain't got nuthin' on these cats! That's why I say that age has nothing to do with maturity and being a man!
Unlike men, boys are content with hangin' out on the corner all night and runnin' with the streets while the white man continues to run the world and global economy. Boys love to fuck and impregnate women but are quick to run away from the responsibility of raising the . Boys can roll a blunt and smoke "purple" all day but are too lazy to apply for a job.
That's why I'm trying to lace women with game in this blog! You need to be more critical and analytical of who you fuck with! Quit dealin' with these lil' ass boys that still live with their mama (drinkin' her orange juice..lol), don't have a car, a job, no aspirations (I don't consider wanting to grow a weed farm an aspiration), and don't take care of their . Why settle for a relationship with a boy (and be miserable) when you be single, celibate and waiting for God to send you're soul mate? Quit settling for just anybody and wait for Mr.Right instead of Mr.rightnow to come into your life!
I guess I'm just frustrated because I'm tired of seeing women hurt. I'm tired of seeing beautiful Black women walking around with broken hearts from being lied to and abused all the time. I'm tired...
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I LOVE ME SOME THICKNESS
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Posted:Nov 5, 2007 4:03 pm
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2010 5:35 pm
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Her name is Thickness she's got a body built like a brick house big breasts stretching out her blouse her hips stretching the seams of her jeans she's thick from eating grits, buffalo wings, gumbo and collard greens Hot Water Cornbread fed I shed a tear for her competition her profoundly protruding posterior got all these dudes wishin' they could buy her a drink in the club but she buys her own Patron all eyes on her when she gets her two step on to this song
Brickhouse in the Building and dudes keep eyein' her other women hatin' because there's no woman finer and her weight doesn't define her she's curvy and confident heaven-sent and I thank God who designed her Thank you Lord! And thank her mama for makin' her there's no mistaken her she's stacked super thin women wonder how she attracts so many guys it's in the arch of her back and the thickness of her thighs!
That must be jelly because jam don't shake like that she's always dressed to kill in baby phat thickness possesses mad sex appeal baby got back and I can't deal with real skinny chicks because I want a full course meal not a snack! And skinny bulimic women are so overrated so it's time that I state it:
She's often imitated But never duplicated I know these skinny chicks hate it Because they're over rated Goodness gracious Thickness is curvaceous thicker than the yellow pages and real women have curves that's her motto she's got the face of a super model her body shaped like a coke bottle She doesn't need collagen injections because she's blessed with full lips she wears sexy attire and men admire her full hips
Her body is au naturale she dresses in style Colgate smile body like badow how you like her now?
There is a feminine quality that thick women possess it has little to do with there full booty and breasts it cannot be surgically implanted, sold on the market or processed the simple fact is that thick women are blessed No botox or ass pads needed no need for silicone because her curves are her own and thick Black women have beautiful complexions ranging from deep dark mahogany to cafe au lait redbone
She's often imitated But never duplicated I know these skinny chicks hate it Because they're over rated
Thickness knows how to dress for her size she's sexy and self assured and her outfits always accessorized she keeps her nails well manicured
Some dudes claim that she's too thick but thats because they're not packin' Thickness is draggin' a wagon and they can't work the middle because their thing is too little![/SIZE]
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Understand what you are reading
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Posted:Nov 4, 2007 12:43 pm
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2008 5:51 pm
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A whole lot of people is taking this poem I got posted the wrong way (TILL THE COPS COME KNOCKIN,) It's not about abusing women. It's about being with someone that you can't wait to get to and all you want to do is FUCK the hell out of them, MEN OR WOMEN. I'm not talking about making love I'm talking about straight fucking, it's a difference, some people just don't know. It's plenty of times I can be at work or out with the boys and I sit back thinking about my lady and say to myself DAMN, I can't wait to get that ass Tonight, HELL it been times when she came in and took me and we fuck like rabbits, thats what this poem represent, NEVER ABUSE.
I felt real disgusted with the response i got from people talking about i'm celebrating abuse, I will never do that, I love all ladies on this earth, black, white, red and yellow I don't care how skinny or thick she is I love them all, they will forever have my respect and they will be forever my Queen. For the people who want to take something so beautiful and turn it to be ugly, get a damn life and understand what you reading.
Look out for the next poem, THICKNESS, and SECRET RENDEZVOUS, I know you will enjoy it and it will show you how much I love the ladies. I'm trying to celebrate something beautiful thats on my mind. ENJOY !
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YOU DESERVE TO CUM FIRST !
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Posted:Nov 2, 2007 3:25 pm
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2010 5:34 pm
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I chose to repost this poem again because I had a lot of females friends asking about this particular poem. Enjoy.
I noticed that you're looking depressed once again is your boyfriend the cause of your frustration? the same dude you're constantly complaining about how he can never rise to the occasion and suffers from premature ejaculation?
And now you're looking depressed feeling deprived from the lack of good sex and you told me your boyfriend has tried everything from Viagra, Cialis to Stamina RX
Baby, let me give you a reality check!
You deserve more than a man who suffers from premature ejaculation you deserve a man that can offer you hours of mental stimulation at least nine inches worth of penetration and multiple orgasms
I've got what you've been missin' I'm a man who believes in slow tongue kissin' the 69 position Slowly lickin' a woman from the nape of her neck Sensually sucking her nipples and breast Fondling her wet womanhood while lifting up her dress until she explodes!
Sweetheart You deserve to cum first you deserve a man who appreciates your worth you deserve a man who believes in intellectual foreplay a man who will stimulate you mentally before engaging in a sexual foray
I'm the type of man who gets pleasure from giving pleasure making sure that my woman is satisfied so I have no problem with kneeling down on bended knee anointing my tongue with the holy waters that drip from in-between your thighs because I believe that's where a piece of heaven lies
Sweetheart You deserve to cum first you deserve a man who appreciates your worth you deserve a man who believes in intellectual foreplay stimulating you mind before engaging in a sexual foray
But more importantly you deserve a good man like me a man who believes in monogamy a man wants to build a family and appreciates a good woman like you
Besides didn't you catch your man cheating with some other chick? must've thought he was slick recorded his infidelity like it was a porno flick you can't teach an old new tricks
So let his ass go because if you keep sleeping with a dog you're going to wake up with fleas a venereal disease STDs and maybe HIV
You deserve a man who will cherish you like a priceless jewel and that boy you're dealing' with is a fool and once you leave him he's going to find out the hard way about the 80/20 rule
I want to be the man who hits your G-spot a man that's constantly making you hot so I'm gonna have to snatch you away from that lil' boy because a sexy woman like you should never have to satisfy herself by using a toy
He's too busy trying to be a swinger and he still hasn't put a ring on your finger claiming that he's in love but the only ring he ever left you is around your bathtub!
Sweetheart You deserve to cum first you deserve a man who appreciates your worth you deserve a man who believes in intellectual foreplay stimulating you mind before engaging in a sexual foray
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Till The Cops Come Knockin
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Posted:Oct 31, 2007 10:41 am
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2010 5:34 pm
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Tonight A sexual felony is going to be committed I'm going to have you screaming' in ecstasy when I hit it And I'm going to leave my dickprints inside you as evidence So there will be no question that I did it And if the police catch me I'll plea guilty Because I don't plan on being acquitted
Too long I've waited to commit this premeditated X-rated sex act And when I'm through I might get incarcerated because tonight I'm fucking the shit out of you!
I'm coming strapped With a pack of Magnum XLs Making you yell Breakin' your back while playing that track by Maxwell
Tonight I'm going to be charged with disturbing the peace Your neighbors are going to call the police Because I'll have you screaming from the top of your lungs When you cum between the sheets
Tonight I'm placing you under house arrest I'm going to strip search you so get undressed I hope you like it rough because I'm gonna handcuff you to my bed post And lick you from your toes to your breast
Just thinking' about what I'm gonna do to you makes my muscles grow tense I get stuck in a state of mental suspense I want you to cum so hard that you undergo an emotional transcendental sexual experience
Tonight I'm gonna have your pussy throbbin' While you blow jobbin' Dick slobbin' I'll have the bed rockin' Till the cops come knockin'
You left your window open for me So I admit it I crept in I'll show you how hard my dick get I'm concealing a deadly weapon
I aint got no lil wiener This ain't going to be a misdemeanor I'm gonna beat your pussy with my ten inch baton And when I'm through with you no bailsman will want to put up my bail bond
Cause tonight I'm going to be convicted of sexual battery You won't need that dildo with batteries Because I'm gonna beat up your pussy so good that I'll have your bladder Mad at me!
Tonight I'm fuckin you to that song by Maxwell I'll go so deep you yell I know the judge won't give me bail Because I'm going to beat it up so good they'll want to throw me under the jail cell
Tonight I'll have your pussy throbbin' While you blow jobbin' Dick slobbin' Have the bed rockin' Till the cops come knockin'
Tonight you're getting fucked I'll start off slow with my tongue They going to charge me with lascivious conduct Because I'll have your clit sprung
This is first degree premeditated sex I ain't ever been in lust like this I'm doing exercises with my tongue In preparation of stimulating your clitoris
You can't escape my grip so don't even try to I want to throw your thighs over my shoulders and submerge my dick deep inside you You know how I do I'll go so deep that you feel the full thrust of each backstroke when I ride you
I want to pound your pussy relentlessly Hit it so hard I experience back spasms Send your body shivering into frenzy Making you explode in multiple orgasms
I'll lick every orifice From your mouth to your breast to your back to your crack to your clit Using my tongue to flick and lick your wet crevice Stimulating your clit with the tip of my tongue until you scream Oh shit I'm gonna cum!!!!
They're going to have to use the battering ram to break down the door Police will have to use the jaws of life to pull my body off of yours When the police break down the door They're going to find you spread eagled on the floor
By then you'll be satisfied And the lovemaking complete I'll plead guilty To making you experience multiple orgasms And leaving my skeet all over your sheets
Tonight I'm going to have your pussy throbbin' While you blow jobbin' Dick slobbin' Have the bed rockin' Till the cops come knockin'
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THE TONGUE CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY !
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Posted:Oct 2, 2007 3:36 pm
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2010 5:33 pm
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Your words, your dreams, and your thoughts have power to create conditions in your life. What you speak about, you can bring about!
If you keep saying you can't stand your job, you might lose your job.
If you keep saying you can't stand your body,your body can become sick.
If you keep saying you can't stand your car, your car could be stolen or just stop operating
If you keep saying you're broke, guess what? You'll always be broke.
If you keep saying you can't trust a man or trust a woman, you will always find someone in your life to hurt and betray you. If you keep saying you can't find a job, you will remain unemployed.
If you keep saying you can't find someone to love you or believe in you, your very thought will attract more experiences to confirm your beliefs.
If you keep talking about a divorce or break up in a relationship, then you might end up with it.
Turn your thoughts and conversations around to be more positive and power packed with faith, hope, love and action. Don't be afraid to believe that you can have what you want and deserve.
Watch your THOUGHTS, they become WORDS. Watch your WORDS, they become ACTIONS. Watch your ACTIONS, they become HABITS. Watch your HABITS, they become CHARACTER. Watch your CHARACTER, for it becomes your DESTINY.
The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settle for.
Thought I would share this with you -In the search for ME, I discovered TRUTH. In the search for TRUTH, I discovered LOVE. In the search for LOVE, I discovered GOD. And in GOD, I have found EVERYTHING.
Watch how your circumstances and situations begin to change when you change the way you speak.
"Life is like melted butter. . .once things cool down, it can be reshaped!"
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I'm always learning how to please a women
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Posted:Aug 25, 2007 7:47 am
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2010 5:31 pm
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I'm always learning how to please a woman. Let's face it us men don't know anything, we walk around with our chest out thinking we just gave this women that ultimate pleasure and we did not do shit. It takes a lot to please a women sexualy, some women like to be held, some oral, and if you touch them the right way or take your time and find out what makes them click you will get the best surprise at the end. Ask questions, ask what makes them feel good, let them guide you to there G-spot, kiss her body from head to toe, play with her hair, talk to her and let her know how beautiful she is. It's o.k to learn about a women body, put your man hood aside and listen, because i know she trying to tell you something.
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I need some pussy!
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Posted:Aug 4, 2007 1:50 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2007 3:52 pm
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Can any ladies satisfied my need for some pussy. I been working like a and now i'm ready to release some frustration. I have a big dick and a hungry appetite for some pussy. Ladies if you feel the same give me a holla.
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I Want to eat your pussy
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Posted:Feb 21, 2007 10:56 am
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2010 5:31 pm
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What i want is you opening your legs and let me feast on your pussy like its my last meal,
let your juices flow out of you and let me taste every drop, beg me not to stop, go ahead beg me.
I want to look into your eyes knowing you enjoying every lick,
I want to lick every major spot from your cliq, inner lip, outer lip and eventually finding your G-spot,
I want your fingers in my scalp digging my face deep in your pussy,
I want to hear your screams telling me how you can't stop cumming,
I want to put my fingers in your pussy and your ass.
I want you to lift up and admire how i'm eating your pussy.
I want you try to hold back but you can't.
I want you to grab my fingers out your pussy and suck them.
I want you to see stars,
I want your head to spin,
I want you feel that nothing else matter but my tongue and your huge orgasm.
I want you to realise you still have a big ass dick to get prepare for.
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Horny but not Desperate
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Posted:Aug 16, 2006 2:35 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2012 5:20 pm
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[I]I'm horny ass hell but i'm not desperate, if you come to me looking & smelling like you don't give a fuck but only thing you want to do is fuck, you got the wrong one. Sex appeal and how a women carry her self means a lot to me, I don't care how big, small, fat, skinny, white, black you are if you have those things i ask for it's a beautiful thing. Don't get me wrong I love a women who can be a lady in public but my personal slut behind close doors. I'm looking for that sex appeal and everything that comes with it. HOLLA!
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Some things I don't want to hear
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Posted:Jul 19, 2006 12:25 pm
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2010 5:30 pm
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recently I met this peron on-line and we went out for dinner had a nice conversation, the chemistry was there she was looking good, smelling good and her sexapeal was off the chart. We decide to go to a hotel and finish the night off having great sex, once we got finish we laid in the bed next to each other and talk about how wonderful the night had went and all of sudden she start to talk about how she can't pay her bills at home, I let her finish talking but at the same time i did not want to hear that she made me feel real uncomfortable thinking now we just fuck she brings up this, hey don't get me wrong i'm a real generous person, but i'm know one fool either especially when we just met, I got know problem paying for breakfast, lunch, dinner and etc but paying someone eles bills thats another story. Some things you just don't want to hear
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FOLLOW MY DIRECTIONS !
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Posted:Jul 1, 2006 7:48 pm
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2007 5:39 pm
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I want you on your knees, now play with your pussy while i'm standing in front of you stroking my hard dick, don't touch it, I said don't touch it, just look at it, yeah thats it play with your pussy, lick your fingers and then let me have a taste, mmmmmm taste real sweet, ah ah don't touch keep fingering yourself, look at my dick its to overwhelming isn't it, what, what did you say, you cumming, let it flow, yes, yes let me see you cum, suck on your tities, take your hand and taste how sweet you are now give me a taste, you want to suck this hard dick don't you, don't you, beg for it, beg me to put my dick in your mouth, yeah thats it beg for this dick, take your time this dick isn't going anywhere, ahhh hell yelll.
spit on it, smack it, swallow this dick, don't hold back you beg for it now suck this dick like you mean it, deep throat this dick and lick my balls, gooood damn you suck some good dick, look at me, don't take your eyes off me, damn girl you good, what you trying to tell me with my dick is in your mouth, what you cumming again, rubbing your pussy and sucking my dick is to much for you, get off your knees and lay back, I'm ready to taste all of you, spread your legs, let me lick your sweet cum off your thighs, slowly working my way up to your wet and waiting pussy.
My wet tongue is meeting your hot and wet pussy, I'm licking your cliq, searching for your G-spot and once i found it i ask you to tell me how much you want me to continued to eat your pussy, you yelled and moaned at me to please don't stop, I love the way your pussy taste so i do as you say, I want us to change position so you can sit on my face, yes, yes sit your pussy right there, let me eat your pussy real good, you trying to get up but i want let you, you yelling screaming that you can't stop cumming but i'm not hearing it, your pussy taste so damn good, my face is dripping wet from your cum, you ease your pussy off my face and passionately kiss me telling me you love the way you taste and i agree.
You grab my dick and put it back in your mouth telling me how much you love sucking my dick and asking me to please fuck you, every time you go down and come back up you saying please fuck me with this big dick, you finally sit on this dick your pussy is so hot it just makes my dick harder, you trying to catch your breath telling me my dick is so big and you about to cum again, all the yelling and screaming I think everybody in the neighborhood is hearing how much you are enjoying this dick, I got your legs up in the air, you look straight at me biting your bottom lip telling me with a desperate look fuck me, fuck me, harder, harder don't stop.
I ask you to bend over doggy-style my favorite, my dick is so hard and ready i feel like i'm going to explode, you spread your ass cheeks begging me to fuck you harder, yelling at me you about to cum again, you meeting me stroke for stroke and i'm pounding that ass good, I'm telling you i'm about to cum, you tell me not yet, you take my dick and put it in your mouth looking at me sucking and slobbing trying to tell me how much you enjoy me fucking you and looking at my dick being suck so damn good i could not hold back any longer oooooh shitttt i cumming so damn good you milking this dick good catching every drop, licking down my balls back up to the tip of my dick, you lay across my chest telling me how much you love following my directions.
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