Why some attractive women are not so hot!
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Posted:Jun 28, 2005 9:22 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I saw a poll that showed many more women than men think Paris Hilton is hot! I want to express my opinion why this result makes sense.
Paris has beautiful clothes and loves to strike sexy poses at hot nightclubs. She did a credible job of doing a lap dance while washing a car for a Karl's Jr. ad. But does a guy dream of having sex with her?
Not me! No way! Not that I would kick her out of my bed if she materialized there. But I would not cross the street to try to get her into my bed. Why not?
Many reasons! She is obviously way too high maintenance! She is too rich, too spoiled, too caught up in her appearance and playing at being a celebrity. She is too flat chested and too thin. She is so obsessed with her appearance you could never have fun just eating a hamburger and fries! She is the big cheese! Whatever I did or said would not be that interesting to her. I could never measure up and feel comfortable that I was successful enough. She would not just want to hang around, have sex all day, watch old movies or walk in the park.
Some Women love the sexy clothes and high profile posing. Some Men just see the self-absorbtion and realize all the grief she will put you through.
Sex can be earthy, express deep compassion and lustiness which comes from age and experience. Paris is too young to know much about life and has demonstrated no depth of feeling or soul. Warmth and compassion are sexy; glitz is just showy.
Does anybody get it?
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Sexiest organ is the brain!
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Posted:Jun 28, 2005 9:05 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Some people get it and some do not!
I watched Cathouse 2 on HBO about the Bunny Ranch in Nevada, a legal place for . They showed a pretty blonde dancer who decided to try being a . She was not as popular as many other women who looked much less attractive, but exuded a fun sexy attitude! The guys picked less attractive women who made them feel sexier! The hot blonde soon quit after being disappointed at her low earnings.
The successful prostitutes were great at extracting money, turning a $200 sale into a $2,000 orgy. They turn bait and switch tactics into a fine art! Another reason I don't want to pay for it! With my sex drive I would spend thousands in no time at all!
My point is the human sex drive is a fascinating interpersonal interaction. Someone may look great, but if they do not have personality or make you feel great, they are not hot! Great appearance, great hygiene are nice. But a sexy attitude is the most important thing!
What is sexy? Acceptance, warmth, energy, interest in experimentation, humor, patience, enjoyment in giving and receiving pleasure! Romance, suspense, realizing that drawing it out makes the end result more fun. Getting there is more than half the fun. Accepting that your body and your partners are beautiful, even if not perfect or meet some standard for size. Not too big or too small, but likable just the way they are!
Woody Allen's line: "Sex is dirty, if you do it right!"
Laughing at our our foolishness, but accepting that we are lovable fools.
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My first time!
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Posted:Jun 27, 2005 11:31 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Read a thread about first time so I will relate mine here.
I had fooled around in high school but finally had intercourse my first year of college. I had turned down some opportunities that did not feel right! Hard to believe but true.
Knew the lucky lady for about a month before we finally did it in my Co op room. The funny thing is I lasted about fifteen seconds! It felt so good and I was so keyed up! I was disappointed but she wisely said it would go better next time. It did! I took it slow and lasted so long she said to hurry up! No one is ever happy and content.
With practice one improves (no one is perfect); I have been practicing ever since!
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Backup management for !
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Posted:Jun 27, 2005 11:17 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Interesting to think about the changed roles in raising a . Mine is now 23 and living back East. You go from micromanaging his life, to consulting, to just being available for an opinion if asked, next you step in only if he has a meltdown.
When a in under five, you just feed him. Then you ask him do you want X or Y? Later, you recommend a good selection, but let him decide. Still later you comment only if asked, or if there is a problem. After 18 the is an adult. His life to decide how to he wants to live.
But if he is too fat or too thin you might stage an intervention to save a life (from bulimia or toxic obesity for example!)
This backing off from direct responsibility is proper; free will is only possible if you nurture independence. I am offended by the over protective and over involved parent. Give a some space! With some rope the can hang himself or make a lasso and catch a steer for a BarBQue! His life, his way.
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Iraq: Lets declare victory and leave!
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Posted:Jun 27, 2005 8:52 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I am not a fan of George W. Bush! His stubborness is not the same as good judgment. Lincoln and FDR were stalwart in the face of adversity, but the Civil War and World War II were worth fighting for. Iraq, not!
Our adventure in Iraq was justified largely to keep WMD's out of the hands of terrorists. Saddam had no history of giving WMD's to terrorists. Russia has lots of loose nukes, chemical and biological weapons which terrorists might get. Low level radioactive waste in the US could be used by terrorists for a dirty bomb! Iran, North Korea and Pakistan were greater sources to leak weapons to terrorists.
I suport military force and our troops, but I feel Iraq is a lost cause. I would have fought in the Civil War, WWI and WWII and Korea, but I think our wars in Vietnam and Iraq are poorly thought out quagmires that lead nowhere. Even Afghanistan war, which was justified by the Taliban's connection with Al Queda, is a mess.
We do not have enough troops to occupy Iraq and too many in the country playing the role of targets in a shooting gallery. Like Reagan's debacle in Lebanon, and Clinton's in Somalia having our service men and women die for a political purposes not central to our defense is unacceptable. I say declare victory and leave!
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New group name
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Posted:Jun 27, 2005 8:32 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I am thinking about starting a new group; one way to avoid being ejected! Brainstorming a catchy name:
Married, but needing hot sex
Recreational sex for real
Lovers needed, apply now!
Real sexy people
Lovemaking Consumer Reports (test and rate lovemaking technique)
Real F*ckers r Us
Sex addicts resisting treatment
Nymphs and Satyrs
Sex fiends
Love for rent
Your ideas and reactions?
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I got kicked out of Affair Link Bootcamp 101!
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Posted:Jun 26, 2005 6:23 pm
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2007 11:36 am
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Well I said I have a gift for annoying people! I was ejected from Affair Link Boot camp 101! What an honor! I provoked the most replies and views by the following two threads:
Why a married guy cheats, and quit looking for a perfect guy/girl!
The first thread tried to explain why I was being unfaithful after many years of marriage. I thought articulating my reasoning would help others understand my situation and perhaps encourage others not to take their mates for granted before it was too late. Wrong! I just got attacked for my immorality. Plus ad hominem attacks for being a lawyer. So stupid.
The second thread espoused the extremely novel and controversial view that no one on Earth is perfect, so why did people persist in seeking perfection in a mate or even a friend for sex? The stupidity of requiring others to be perfect seemed to me to simply be a way to avoid having a relationship with real fallible humans! For this simple observation I was mercilessly savaged! Being facetious, I claimed I now understood how Jesus felt as he was crucified for telling the truth. Also reminds me of the little boy who candidly said the Emperor was naked when others pretended he was wearing fine clothes!
Well, I am proud to no longer be a member of Affair Link Bootcamp 101 and to have the honor of being forcibly ejected! This red badge of courage I will always treasure. These same fine people had a game known as Phucktard Lazar Tag to ridicule newbies who had the affrontery to candidly express a desire for sex, on this Sex Site!
What fools these mortals be!
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Hand washing
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Posted:Jun 26, 2005 2:44 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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According to surveys one-third of people admit they do not wash their hands after using the restroom! The actual number is much higher probably 60%! And they want to shake your hand? Yuck!
Why is hand washing important?
Washing your hands thoroughly with soap and water is the single most important thing you can to do to prevent the spread of germs and protect yourself and others.
How can washing your hands keep you healthy?
Germs can be found everywhere, and bacteria and viruses that cause colds and infectious diseases such as hepatitis A, E. coli, shigella, and salmonella, are spread through contact with a contaminated surface or by persons who don’t wash their hands after using the bathroom. Washing your hands correctly will greatly reduce the chances of having those germs enter your body when you touch your nose or mouth, or spreading them to others through handling food or person to person contact.
When should you wash your hands?
Before preparing or handling foods After touching raw meat, fish or poultry Before and after meals After going to the bathroom or changing diapers After blowing your nose, coughing or sneezing on your hands After touching a cut or sore After handling pets Whenever they're dirty
Is hand washing technique important?
Knowing how to wash your hands correctly is just as important as knowing when to wash them. Just rinsing them quickly is not enough. When you wash your hands:
Always use warm, running water and soap. Rub hands together vigorously until a soapy lather appears and continue for 15-20 seconds. Be sure to wash all surfaces thoroughly, including the wrists, fingers, palms and top of hands, between fingers, and under fingernails. Rinse hands under warm running water. Leave the water running while drying hands. Dry hands with a clean, disposable (single use) towel. Turn the faucet off using the towel as a barrier between your hands and the faucet handle.
Note hand washing stops you spreading a disease to others, just like covering your mouth when you sneeze or cough. Your handwashing protects them and their handwashing protects you. If you wash your hands after shaking hands with them, and before touching your mouth or eyes, you protect yourself. Common courtesy benefits you, if others do the same. Good Health is interdependent.
A test at an elementary school that tried handwashing before meals and recess decreased absenteeism by one-half from colds/flu!
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Desublimate!
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Posted:Jun 26, 2005 5:43 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Freud claimed all civilization was sublimated sex. Well I say less sublimation and more sex! As I blogged earlier, sex is very healthy activity. Many other activities less so. So more sex and less other stuff!
Including blogging and commenting. Seems like some folks have thousands of posts! Are they balancing this activity with thousands of sex acts? If not, they are overindulging in sex talk and avoiding the action.
D.H. Lawrence preached get sex out of your head and into your body. I agree. Later, I got to get me some sex!
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Found a lost poodle last night!
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Posted:Jun 26, 2005 5:37 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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A cute white mini poodle was found wandering around our neighborhood last night by some . They tried to find the owner(s) for a few hours with no luck. They are posting flyers today and the will probably go to the Pasadena Humane Society on Raymond Monday if the lost owner does not turn up. No tags on collar! Hope the has an embedded chip.
The parents would not allow the sleepover, so whitey laid on my bed to sleep. Not my first choice, but the poodle was barking and whining in the cage and no one was sleeping! Michael Jackson was right in claiming a grown man can have a sleepover and share his bed without having sex!
So a man who likes and dogs cannot be all bad!
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Car shopping
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Posted:Jun 26, 2005 5:29 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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My mate was unhappy with the ride of her Mercedes, due to its low profile tires and lowered suspension (bought that way). So we went to the local Lexus dealer. Nice cars, but quite expensive, and no rebates or financing deals. The GS430 was $58500 plus tax and license, with no offer to reduce the MSRP! And they offered $10000 less for our trade then we wanted.
So, we kept our car and put new tires on the front for $400 at Firestone. I feel great having saved spending $60K! Opened a bottle of $10 champagne to celebrate!
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Reach for your mate, instead of your plate!
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Posted:Jun 26, 2005 5:23 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Sex and food, two major preocupations! From the appearance of Americans we are eating too much, and not each other! I say more sex, less food!
A happy diet would be to skip lunch for sex. Volunteers?
Extra weight from overeating is unhealthy, causing increased risk of diabetes, heart disease, cancer, high blood pressure, gallstones, liver disease, lung problems, and joint injuries.
Too much sex just makes certain parts temporarily sore.
Some argue promiscious sex spreads STD's. You can have lots of sex with a steady friend/mate. Anything can lead to disease. Many get sick from food poisoning and hepatitis spread by food improperly prepared, yet we keep eating.
So eat out more often, just don't eat food when you do!
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Ignorance is bliss
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Posted:Jun 25, 2005 5:45 am
Last Updated:Jun 7, 2007 4:38 am
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Shakespeare's Othello, regarding Desdemona's supposed infidelity with Cassio:
"What sense had I of her stol'n hours of lust? I saw't not, thought it not, it harm'd not me: I slept the next night well, was free and merry; I found not Cassio's kisses on her lips: He that is robb'd, not wanting what is stol'n, Let him not know't, and he's not robb'd at all."
Ignorance is bliss. Better not to know of the spouse's infidelity! Confession may be good for the soul of the confessor, but bad for the soul of the one confessee!
Stout denial and secrecy are best.
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