Trying to catch up
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Posted:Jan 4, 2007 1:00 pm
Last Updated:May 27, 2024 10:20 am
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Ok, for those of you who know me, you know 2 things. One, I like to flirt, meet, play, and have an over all good time. Second, work for me it takes up an extremely big part of my time and many times I fall out of touch and, sadly enough, my personal life suffers. I don't live a life with a typical job where I can just punch in and out during a regular part of my day. Much of that time as well, I could be just about anywhere, being sent to travel for business to just about anywhere in the continent last minute. Sadly enough, these reeks havoc trying to have the social or personal life I much enjoy.
I just got back recently from being away for over 3 weeks and find myself playing catch up with some time off, not sure what has been going on, or what's coming up. Chances are, just as I do get caught up, I'll be off again. Many can't exactly understand it, why I don't just have a typical job, and why I put so much of my energy into it. It's really not for the cash, that's for sure. So, why do i do it?
Simply put, satisfaction. I take pride in creating and recreating things. I enjoy being the person who does what many would not, or could not, then just stepping back out of the spotlight for doing it. I enjoy being in control of what's happening but being able stand back and let the magic work itself and not having someone hover over me telling me how o do it. I stay away from mentioning what I do exactly since being what it is, and being the site this is, they may not exactly mix well to some, and perception is key in a lot of views. Fair to say though, it is not typical even in it's own category of business.
Do I was I could better find time for a balance of work and personal/play time. Hell yes. But for now I enjoy the few people who understand and work with me in balancing that little time I do have, and hopefully more in the future.
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A Blog to fill the gap
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Posted:Sep 21, 2006 2:56 pm
Last Updated:Jan 11, 2009 6:37 am
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Ok, so looking through my profile, I realized, it's been quite some time since I actually put anything down in my blog. Those who know me realize my definition of the real word tends to overwhelm any time on line,especially with my work. Priorities, go figure.
Since last time I blogged, I've had the opportunity to meet quite a few people on the site. Some at parties and some at more intimate meetings. And while so many say they find it hard to meet people on here, I say the only hard part is so many people live so far away . However, that, like most anything, can be overcome when you seriously set your mind to it. I for one, with my, at times, insane work schedule, still find time when you actually want to meet people. I find those who have a hard time are either not really trying hard enough, or (as in the case of so many guys) treat this place like a drive tru window and think they can just pull up for sex.
I for one would always still meet someone for coffee for 15 minutes, rather than 15 days on line to find out more how we click, and will continue to stick to that point of view. My only advice to those who still find it hard to meet people, I can only break it down like this; Be yourself, be polite, be visible, and above all, be serious. If you haven't noticed yet, not many people have a whole lot of time to waste on those just playing games, and word does spread quickly. Those who are here for serious reasons may remain somewhat annonymous, but they talk to people they've met, and so on, and so on. What kind of reputaion do you want.
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So many changes...so little time. But a learning experience along the way.
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Posted:Mar 22, 2006 1:07 am
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2008 8:17 pm
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Well, here I am now 3 weeks into singldom. Re-relating to being single again after a long while, finding a new aprtment, and preparing for a move, and still finding time to work and sleep. Wow. Who knew readjusting into single life would be so much so fast.
Anyhow, the apartment search continues. Who knew that people want so much for nothing. I swear they think they are going to become the next Donald Trump of Canada over night off a run down rental property. Actually, I think the only thing truly frustrating about it is lack of time to see places and not wanting to settle for a hole in the wall, even for just a year lease. Anyways, it goes, and that's that...I'm confident I'll find an exceptable place.
Work now. Borrrring. Makes this blog seem like a rollercoaster ride. But at least my blog I know will improve once I get my mind less cluttered and be able to express thoughts rather than just facts.
Now let's look at the interactional portion of my life. Yes, I've been using Affair Link on a fairly regular basis to interact with people... including scouting for those "expressional" souls. When I started this, as I stated in an earlier blog, road to new boundries to be crossed, I never thought of it as swinging per say. Just a series of totally meaningful one night stands in which to explore new realms. Never really related the computer into swinging. But I guess it is the new form of it and if you have to label it as such, then I am not one to break everyones views. After all, not looking for love, just a good time.
Now after just about 2 weeks on Affair Link I do see where PurrKitty's comment came from. And as a single guy it's even harder in a "swinger lifestyle" with more people nowadays looking to add a girl or other couple over a guy, even in a cyber world. And yes, there are many hapless guys that use this site that, to be honest, don't stand a hope in hell at making any points in this game (sorry if you are one and you're reading this, It's my blog and I gotta calls it likes I sees it), and that makes it just a bit more difficult for the rest of us. Possible propects having to weed through the pile get lost. So, being an intelligent guy, I just went back to what I know and started working from there (take notes guys if you need em ). I ignored the whole fact it's typing instead of talking and went from there. In R/L I would just be myself. At times intelligent, times witty, and others a smart ass. It breaks the ice, and even in a sea of mindless jabber of the same thing, some poeple do catch it. They may not all like it since some get offended, or even some feel like I stepped on their toes, but you know what...that's me anyhow. Hell, I got challenged in fights with complete strangers over their unadvancing lust over a somewhat complete stranger just because I was getting further in 5 minutes then they could in weeks or months. So be it. In R/L I got a lot of physical bruises over doing it. In here, they can call me names. I think if I could survive having my head smashed with a flower pot, a few words don't mean a thing....gotta love the cyber world. Finally, I'm taking learning from someone with experience. She's hot, she's cool, and who knows...maybe I will end up accompanying her and her beau in some sweat time if things go that route. Regardless though, I'm getting the inside track on how to make it work from experience. Though be it experience that already has an advantage starting out (Female of a F/M couple). But really, who better to learn from. I am not going to ask a guy what would work on him. If he wants a guy let him work at it. And just so there's no confusion, I'm not "using her for her mind"...far be it from a perv like me . No, just being myself, we started exchanging a couple words and , surprise surprise, like in the real world, we found a common mindset and got along. Regardless whether a "friend with benifits" or a friend without, she's good people. And, who knows, either way if I become a star pupil, maybe we'll get along to plan the next big "meet & greet" party in the city . . . by select invitation only ,of coarse.
Hope to see you there.
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