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How To Prove You're Real Among All These Fakes On AFF
How To Prove You're Real Among All These Fakes On AFF One of the biggest problems on Affair Link is having anonymity, yet still being seen as real. The more you are yourself on this site, the more other real people will gravitate towards you. Unfortunately that's not always possible. Take me for instance. I have a good social life, work in for myself in a job that pays well and gives me a certain amount of social standing in terms of notoriety and fame (in a way that's growing) and I certainly don't need this site to find sex with attractive people. Unfortunately, in every day life, exciting NSA adventures getting up to extremely dirty things with people you would never normal meet isn't something that happens much or is thought of as upstanding. Which is ridiculous, but this is the world we live in. As much as I want to, I can't show off my face on here, which is annoying as I'm impossibly self-assured. I seem to be a miracle in terms of barely aging and apparently I have one of those light up the room smiles. It doesn't seem to help when I'm trying to find the toilet, at night, in the dark, but it does seem very infectious when I'm with others. If you want to picture me in your head, I've been told a few times now that I look like the porn star James Deen when I'm fucking. So I guess, picture him only slightly younger looking and with an Irish accent. So how do I put this across without the world seeing me on here?? How do you be as real as possible and only share your identity and pictures with other real people? 1) Well, the first thing is have more than one photo or two photos. Add one every so often and you can prove you are real in regards to your profile name, even if you don't show your face, if you write it down, show it off and get it verified. This will mean people know that you mean business and that you're here to actually make the effort and meet people for amazing adventures. 2) Make a video of just about anything, not just sex and if you don't want to be seen in them at least be heard. - Now, as of the writing of this blog, this is something I haven't did yet myself, which is strange as it's an area I work in, but since I've returned to my profile recently, If decided this needs sorted, I just haven't got the chance to do something fun yet - I still need to hide my face but I'll let people hear me and see I'm real. 3) Make an effort in your photos and videos - I happen to have access to professional camera and film equipment but ultimately, good, professional photos or videos look fake, you are much better just using your camera phone. Plus it's easy to crop out your face. Look like you would on a meet and maybe show off or hint at something extra if you don't want to show too much online. 4) Write a bio that is genuine and lasts a couple of paragraphs. If you can't think of anything to write about yourself, simply write exactly what turns you on. Write what you don't want as well as what you do. Add a personal touch if you need to by adding some of your favorite things that you know are unique, not run of the mill things, things you love that are unique to you. 5) Get testimonials from other real users... I've yet to do this at the time of writing this blog and I wish I had done this before I took a break for a while and now I'm considering getting them from other real users if we've had contact outside Affair Link and know we are real even if we haven't met. So there you have it - hopefully this advice will help others get past the dick pics and fakes and meet other real users not abusing the site like fucking idiots and get out there and have some amazing adventures with other like-minded people. Be safe and have fun!! Mr. Raynes. |
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