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Trouble in Paradise
Trouble in Paradise It has been quite a while since we have posted anything to our blog because things have been pretty crazy as Janie and I have been moving her in with me here in Idaho Falls and integrating our two households. In addition to that we have been staying very busy and very active with Lifestyle events and vanilla activities. For the most part, it has been absolutely wonderful and I can't imagine being much happier. However, I imagine it should go without saying that it has not been all sunshine and roses. Since this is a Lifestyle blog, we will keep it limited to that, for now. It almost seems like a long time ago, but back in the middle of May, Janie and I attended School House Rock in Lava Hot Springs. It was our first Lifestyle event, other than one we have hosted, that we attended together, so we were both a little bit worried about it. In preparation for the event, we had a good amount of communication about what our "rules" were going to be. Up until that point, we had only played together as a couple, but we had decided that under certain circumstances, such as a house party or Lifestyle event that we were attending together, we could play alone and we also discussed the particulars of playing alone. We both thought we were on the same page and we were both very much looking forward to the event. However, as you can imagine things didn't exactly work out quite as well as we would have liked them to. On Friday night of the event, which was basically a Meet & Greet and I unfortunately got wrapped up in some pretty bad group drama. The worst part of it all was that I was the cause of it all because I said something to someone about someone else. Well, naturally, it got back around to the person I said it about and she was quite hurt, as well she should have been, and it got blown way out of proportion. So for most of the night, I was in a pretty bad mood as a result of dealing with the situation and beating myself up over what I did to cause it all. As the night went on Janie had decided that she was going to have a good time regardless of the drama that was going on around us. She discovered a young man that she was really attracted to and wanted to play with, so she approached me and asked me for the key to our hotel room so she could go have some fun. I didn't react to that very well at all and basically had a fit right there in the bar. Naturally that didn't go over very well with her at all because she thought she was well within the rules of the arrangement we had discussed, but there were some finer points that we didn't actually agree on. Therefore, in my beleaguered state of mind, I overreacted setting off a chain of events that got pretty ugly. We spent the rest of the night and most of the next day fighting pretty bad with each other. In fact it got so bad that at dinner Saturday night before the event, we actually upset some of the group members we having dinner with because we were making a scene. We both felt pretty bad about it and tried really hard to salvage what we had left of our weekend together. We went to the event and had a good time overall. In fact, towards the end of the evening, we ended up venturing into the Detention Room (the play room) and ended up playing with each other and some of our friends as well. I guess the thing to take out of this is that communication is, once again, such an important and vital piece of having a good Lifestyle relationship. This was a very good example of how 2 people thought they were on the same page, but really weren't. Since then we have talked a lot more about it and further defined things between us and things have been much better. Dennis (Idahonuke) To read about myongoing adventures and journey into the lifestyle: [blog Idahonuke] |
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