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Sexually EVER after.
Sexually EVER after. In the movies there are great lines, quite a few of them I have used and was excited to find a place to use them. In real life things seldom unfold that way the great sex at the end of the movie (or the innuendo that there will be great sex) never materializes in my real life. Well almost never, I guess my real problem is the idea of happily ever after. Is there a happily ever after in the world of sex? What would that look like for those who enjoy sex? I received a call today from a guy that I met sometime in the last two years, apparently we had really good sex, and I must have felt it too because he had my number. Now I barley remember his name and I don't remember anything else about him. So if the sex was so good why is it that a call at least a year later is OK. So thinking a little closer to home I have had a few FWB's where the sex was great. For some reason or another the “great” sex is not all that frequent. I must say I just don't get it, the guys always say the sex is great too, and then there is no desire to go there again for a month or so. I think that I am so jaded by this cycle and the lack of sexsistiency that I can't see a happy place at the after. The thing is guys are supposed to be the sexual ones. They are the ones that are supposed to be begging for it. Now granted there has to be some quality for me to want the quantity but what the hell, are they just finding it so many places that twice in a month is too much to ask. Why is it so hard to find the arousal, the intensity and the draw in one place. I want that “happily ever after” sex that cums every night and happens because you can't keep your hands off of each other. Heavy sigh … I guess I will replace the sex with wine, and curb my<b> whine </font></b>and be really grateful if I ever find a balance... Lets Create together. http://Affair Link.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J |
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I hate to admit it, but RibaldAmusement is right. Go down a decade. Guys in their 30's are still impressionable and develop long lasting crushes. The negative side, however, is that they aren't very experienced in controlling their bodies and may need some guidance. Which I, personally, hate and would rather be with older and more experienced men even though they may lack that sizzling passion. Visit my blog It's a Mad, Mad, Mad World of NaughtyInSO, leave a comment, become a watcher. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ LIVE AND LET LIVE Be happy! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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To take a slightly different tack, a very dear friend once gave me a really chewy piece of wisdom: "You'd be surprised at how little time other people spend thinking about you." Not meaning me, specifically (although I'm sure it's true): Meaning that very often people's reactions, or actions (or lack thereof) toward us have nothing to do with us at all. Cold comfort, perhaps... but the cliched truth is that more often than not, especially in the more-casual-than-dating sex world, it ain't about us... it's about what's going on with their lives. Not much to do other than shrug and keep going... because there is no benefit, and more importantly no evidence, that it's about us. Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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That's a long wait for a phone call!
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the word that always hits me is "NEXT" after all life is short. thanks for the positive, I always like to know i am not alone... Lets Create together. http://Affair Link.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J
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Perhaps... but i have tried a couple of twentysomthings... their parts seem to have the same problems as my counter parts... i guess the real answer is just to keep trying regardless of age until i find a thing that works... thanks for posting ... i will be seeking a "crush"...lol Lets Create together. http://Affair Link.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J
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I hate to admit it, but RibaldAmusement is right. Go down a decade. Guys in their 30's are still impressionable and develop long lasting crushes. The negative side, however, is that they aren't very experienced in controlling their bodies and may need some guidance. Which I, personally, hate and would rather be with older and more experienced men even though they may lack that sizzling passion. thanks for posting. Lets Create together. http://Affair Link.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J
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To take a slightly different tack, a very dear friend once gave me a really chewy piece of wisdom: "You'd be surprised at how little time other people spend thinking about you." Not meaning me, specifically (although I'm sure it's true): Meaning that very often people's reactions, or actions (or lack thereof) toward us have nothing to do with us at all. Cold comfort, perhaps... but the cliched truth is that more often than not, especially in the more-casual-than-dating sex world, it ain't about us... it's about what's going on with their lives. Not much to do other than shrug and keep going... because there is no benefit, and more importantly no evidence, that it's about us. so are you saying that i need to manipulate a man so as to make him thing about me... remind him that i am there as it were... or are you saying cut your losses and move on? I tend to do what is easy, but its the things that are hard that turn out to be way more fun. Lets Create together. http://Affair Link.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J
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That's a long wait for a phone call! this has actually happened three times now and i am sure it will happen again and what does it say about you to me if i don't remember you well it cant have been that memorable...lol but the truth is i am like most people i deal with what i have to every day. Lets Create together. http://Affair Link.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J
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