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soo...whats next...
soo...whats next... So, everyone is ranting about the book 50 shades of grey. I have not and likely will not read it, and from what I have heard, it’s badly written, poorly researched literature. What is has done though has brought the idea of some sort of kink to a more of a water cooler conversation amongst the ladies I have known, including my timid wife!Really! Now, I have known for years she liked he idea of a forceful and aggressive approach every so often, but since some passing comments about the book recently, I thought I would try something with her and see if I could break her out of her shell a bit more. I have tried this with one playmate in the past, but never got the courage to try at home. Well, after a few days of teasing, prodding and suggestive comments, AND I finally was able to chase both the teenagers out of the house this past Saturday night, I convinced her to 'playdate' with me. I have found recently she relaxes soo much more with the out of the house... I arranged the date early in the day, and then went our normal Saturday routines, but making sure the were REALLY gone when it counted...teenagers are soo fickle! I could tell though as the day went by, there was some twinkle in her eyes I have not seen too much of in the last few years, and MY head was racing madly! So, after an hour or so, after the left after supper, a couple glasses of wine just watching TV, I finally told her what I wanted to do, and she had no choice but to do it. I also warned though, that anytime during the evening. if what I suggested or wanted her to do, was too much..she had to tell me to stop..simple as that! SURPRISINGLY, she completely agreed!! So, after that, I laid out what she needed to do. Take batch, shave her legs, her pussy and put make-up on. Then she had to put a specific skirt, top, stockings and heels on, and her black thong she rarely wears...SURPRISINGLY, she completely agreed, no questions..so up she got and did! I then told her to stay in our room with her blackberry so I could text more instructions! While she was in her bath, I then laid out and hid a few things, handcuffs, scarves and a soft cover...finally, some music in the rec room and dimmed the lights... She finally texted saying she was ready.so I gave her specific instructions...while I hid in the bathroom...told her to come downstairs, stand in the middle of the rec room, eyes closed, legs slightly wide and her hands at her side...and told her she could not peek...and I would come in after...SURPRISINLY..she did exactly that....I took a few moments when I came in the room quietly to just admire...wow...she was fucking hot tonight...!!! I truly wish she could dress like this to go public..noting exposed, nice cleavage..she truly does not understand how sexy and good looking she is...just not enough self esteem. Finally, I quietly got undress and came up behind her,,then whispered in her ear...to relax, enjoy and just let it all happen. To let herself to, not to be embarrassed about the sex she really wants. I gently then blindfolded her with a soft scarg...black.and then told her to follow my lead.....heheh.. Her voice took a tone I have not heard for years...soft, sexy, seductive..and agreeable! I caressed her whole body, under her clothes and told her she was a naughty girl and the police had to arrest her...so I told her she was under arrest and then gently pulled her arms back and slipped on the cuffs!! OMG...she moaned...totally unexpected..and started to reach for my cock…which I told her she could not have yet. I could tell this turned her on a whole lot...as I slipped my hand between her legs and found her soaking wet!!. I lead her to against the far wall...and then pushed up against her and gave her a quick feel of my cock…pushing against her ass...and frisked her again. Now the moans and sighs were getting loud and she told me her pussy was dripping wet...again, something of talk she hadn't done in awhile. Eventually, I moved her away from the wall and slowly removed her short skirt...omfg....her black stockings and heels and thong…with her handcuffed...fuck me. She bent over a bit and told me pull her thong aside and lick her....I told her NO...you are doing what I tell you...I could tell she was aching for it...but my teasing was driving her wild. She said okay... By this time, I had a raging hard on...harder than I have had with her for along time...this was turning me on too!! I took over to the chair in the middle of the room and sat her down..pussy just over the edge...and out came her play cock…I told her that her punishment was she had to let another man fuck her first...then me...and to pretend her to was the other men...so she started to suck me, while I reached down with the dildo and started to rub her pussy...she started to thrust forward, begging for it. I then took off her thong, and gave her pussy a good licking on the edge of the chair...she came all over my face..man...was she wet!! Not a gush…but close! I then took her over the couch, undid her cuffs and laid her down on the soft blankets..but now I tied her ankles and wrists so she was spread open...I then pretend to open the door and welcome another man...saying she is now ready for you..and not to say anything..just to fuck her, cum and then leave...she started to protest slightly,,,not really knowing reality...but I asked three times if she wanted to stop..and she clearly did not want to stop..! So I pretended to lead him down, tell him he had a big hard cock...and that my wife was ready for him... I then gently got between her legs..she was dripping wet, moaning but just a little aprehensive...then I slowly entered her...and placed the dildo at her mouth, but not touching.....she moaned and grunted deeply as I found bottom, buried deep. I asked how he felt..and she said fucking amazing! I asked her if she could tell me how is cock felt...she said amazing and she said ... please me to fuck her hard...omg...then said to me...I want your cock in my mouth...she bought it..I think..lol...so I put the dildo in her mouth..she then knew for sure it was me in her! I think she really knew that,,but played along. I fucked her for a few minutes,,then told her it was time she came again..and licked her and fucked her with the dildo..still tied up! OMG..when she came, she screamed and seem to pulse forever.almost passing out! finally, she told me to stop...untie her and it was my turn to finish!! So I did that...and she pulled me on top of her again and told be to fuck her until I came in her pussy!!! by this point...I had delayed cumming for so long..it felt like I couldn't! I have never had this feeling before!? So I told her she needed to help..so she pulled her legs way back, and told me to ride her hard...so I did just that. She pulled and sucked on my nipples, grabbed my ass,,,managed to reach my balls..omg...I could feel it coming..finally I could feel it cumming..so I told her to grab my ass with both hands legs way back and that I wanted to kiss her while I came!! A few more hard strokes then one last long deep one..and I fucking came so hard..I wanted to push her into the floor...every spurt,..a hard push..allwhile kissing her... Finally...all spent..and after 5 minutes of not moving...letting my cock subside inside her..I pulled out..and watched my cum flow out of her...omg...she said she has never felt me cum so hard or so much inside her! She said she felt me throb like never before and felt the spurts of cum...something she has never told me!! Wow...what a night...after about a 1/2 or laying on the blanket..we did it again...only lovingly..but the second cum for me was a lot more dramatic feeling...wow...we eventually cleaned up, showered and then went to bed. Its been a long time since we have fallen asleep in each other arms.... I asked her the next day...and told her I never ever expected her to comply like that...she said...I should have done that years ago...wow...what turned her on really was how I was in control, she did not have to work at it, and she loved the anticipation all day. She finally told me I had not been the 'man' to her for a long time...she had wondered where it had gone...we have been equal partners for such a long time, supportive dad etc. She said that she was okay with all of that..but just with her...she wanted her man back...and she told me she really really appreciated what happened. She will likely never let another man into our room, she said, but the idea was amazing and had no idea I thought it would turn me on... so...50 shades of grey...you might be a crappy book, but I think we had a breakthtough in communication..from a night of restraint!!...thanks again...! (note:...I will see how this goes,,whether it lasts...whether she truly will change, but its apparent that I need to change too...to an way I thought she did not want me to be.. Finally, this is the type of skirt she was wearing..with heels and stockings...she has curves though..and looked amazing One last piece of advice..men...don't afraid to be a man..addition conversation with my wife and my playmate on this subject has lead me to believe us men have become pussies! Ladies, please COMMUNICATE with us..But use language we understand. don’t couch it in double meanings..just tell us...example...'be a man..treat me like a woman...lead, know what you want..be confident..don't second guess what I want..." (her words exactly a few days later. |
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Thanks for the comment. I just had to let this experience out. Along with the amazing sex, it was a breakthrough in communication, and not just about sex. I am still working on the assertive part, and have not found it too far..she told me when that would happen. I have also read a book on male leadership, and it the writing inside is almost exactly as she said..be confident, never look back and be empethetic, but don't take your eyes off what you want, if practical and achievable, have a plan! Wow..it took to age 47 to figuree this out! lol
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I haven't read the book but a little forcefulness is good. It makes a man seem strong to me.
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I haven't read the book but a little forcefulness is good. It makes a man seem strong to me. btw..bella...love them cupcakes!
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1 post 9/23/2012 5:50 pm |
WOW!! AWESOME!! I TOO HAVE NEVER READ THE BOOK -- BUT YOU HAVE ME THINKING!! INDEED, GOOD FOR THE BOTH OF YOU!!
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I have read all three of the book and found it was a bit disappointing. I was hoping for more but the first book was good to read and gets you thinking. The ending reminded me of a good romantic novel but I love Romanic anyway.. I am waiting for my ladies golf team to finish them all up and tell me what they think! Now that will be interesting. hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Great post! It's just the type that has been sadly missing on this site for quite some time. Now you know what you have to do. Get back to blogging and share your wisdom and experiences with us all. Cheers.
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Ghost, thanks for the compliments. I may be posting soon...stay tuned
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