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Stop Hating Your Body...
Stop Hating Your Body... I know a lot of women who when they are getting older they get concerned about their body. Here are some tips to feel better about your body. Know that it’s not as bad as you think. Yes, we know, it’s bad. But it could be worse Do NOT say, “Hey, would this be a big deal?” In a perfect world, we’d tell you to say absolutely nothing and just act like you’re totally comfortable in your own skin. But we understand the impulse to want to publicly acknowledge the disappointment you have in your own body. For this reason, you may make a self-depricating, jokey comment ONCE about you two being in different body classes before you do it. But you may NOT whine, complain, ask for reassurance, or go on and on about your bad body to him. At least not as a part of foreplay. Just act like you’re totally comfortable in your own skin. Oh shit, we said it. Well, it’s true. Confidence is sexy, self-consciousness is not, so fake it if you have to. Make like a honey badger and don’t give a shit. Because pretending you don’t give a shit is the best way to come as close as possible to really not giving a shit. Turn the lights off. Do it at night. Keep some clothes on. Stay under the sheets. There’s no need to hit the overhead florescents and start doing jumping jacks in front of him. Stick with the missionary position. So you have gravity working for you, not against you. Break open a bottle of wine. We’re not saying get blotto, but if it’s going to happen, a nice little buzz beforehand may make you (and him) not care so much. Don’t let your self-hatred make you miss out on life. Even if you do it and it sucks, chances are on your death bed you won’t be saying “I really shouldn’t have slept with that smokin’ hot guy I was really into and who I got along great with.” But it you don’t do it, you might end up saying “I wonder what would have happened if I’d slept with that smokin’ hot guy I was really into and who I got along great with.” Fuck like a dude. Make like a man and hook up with a hottie if the opportunity presents itself without shame, reservation or (too much) self-reflection. Don’t worry about him and what he’s thinking; instead focus on your pleasure and how pumped you’ll be to be able to tell your friends you did it with a smoke show. |
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All I can think about adding to this is that for me, with the RIGHT man, I don't want the lights off. I don't care what twisted weird position he wants me in, I don't need wine or a bathroom pep talk, lol. I want HIM and HE wants ME amd that's all I need to know. If I ever feel the need to turn off the lights and whisper self-aggrandizing mantras in my head, this ain't the man for me. Because while I might feel like a Goddess, he's doing something to make me feel like a big mess and that's just unacceptable, lol. When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...
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Thanks... and you have an awesome ass.
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