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Your Own Personal Jesus
Your Own Personal Jesus Does anyone here want to have sex? Wait- don't answer that until you read the rest of the post. Are you on this site to 'Get Laid Tonight'? Or are you here for another reason? My friend [blog 4Jasmine2] alluded to this topic in her post I dare you to prove to me that here is more action on AFF than what I make out to be, though she was aiming her question in a slightly different direction. What I want to know is: Are you on this website with the intention of finding a sexual partner? Are you just here to express yourself through a blog-medium or via cams/videos and have no intention of actually meeting anyone for sex? Are you here to be flirted with and validated in some fashion, but prefer to keep sex OFF the table? Are you here hoping for a relationship? A REAL one? What the fuck is my point? Good question, Seymour. I have no idea. But I've been toying with the idea of hosting my own little blog-based version of The Love Connection (or, in some cases, The Sex Express). I figure that I have 600+ readers and there has got to be a match or two SOMEWHERE in there, right? Don't tell me that you haven't eyed up one of my Readers based on a comment they left here and wanted to slip him/her the old 'wink, wink' but were too afraid to do it for whatever reason. I know you better than that, you Cheeky Sneak. So here's what I want you to do: First, answer the question! I need to know what you're looking for- and don't be shy. Moreover, don't give me the answer you think I (or my Readers) want to read- give us the truth. Don't paste your profile- don't need it. Just give me 100 words or less about what you're looking for. And don't forget to add where you live and whether you'd travel for the right person. A simple 'locals only' would suffice as well. This is an ongoing process...work with me. And it's not just for those of you who want sex...if you're here to find a flirty friend from 500 miles away, great! Want someone to tell you that you're pretty? Okay! Someone to wank off with on cam? Can do! Maybe you just want to<b> </font></b>your blog...have at it! Shave what needs shaving and blot the grease from the rest- there may be photos involved. And don't forget- a proper Madam never indulges. I'm just here to help YOU, lol. Say it with me, "I do it because I care ." When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load... |
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To answer honestly would be to say a qualified "yes" to all the above(don't you love multiple-choice questions?!). I was naive enough to believe there were more locals (or conveniently close-enoughs) when I first joined, thinking it might be a no-brainer way to connect with the similarly, socially-disenfranchised. The fakers and spammers pounced on me like fresh meat at feeding time in the lions cage at the zoo! Once I came to my senses, I discovered the blogs, and decided to try on-line what had been difficult in the real world...take things a step at a time and see what happens. So, yeah, I'm here to blog, hopefully encounter a few like minded females, flirt a little, and if possible, progress to a partnership/relationship that satisfies our mutual desires.
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I joined indulge my sexual appetites...which include but are not limited to meeting people...photos, talking about things, learning about how and why people do the things they do or don't do. Travelling just to meet someone is difficult but when I am travelling, meeting those along the way is a nice bonus!
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2/23/2012 4:34 am |
Are you on this website with the intention of finding a sexual partner? Origionally a friend told me about the site. I didn't know what to expect. Now, 6 month later realizing I am looking for a connection not just a hook up. Are you just here to express yourself through a blog-medium or via cams/videos and have no intention of actually meeting anyone for sex? Not just here to express myself but discovered blogs and have made some amazing friends on here (yourself included). In the beginning I had no intention, now I realize in order to find that connection you must meet the person, no matter how far away. That and its pretty difficult to have sex if you never meet, just sayin... Are you here to be flirted with and validated in some fashion, but prefer to keep sex OFF the table? Had no intention of flirting or validation but who knew it could be so much fun!! Need and want sex but there has to be that spark between us. Are you here hoping for a relationship? A REAL one?Some day my prince will come again but for now enjoying the ride my friend!
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2/22/2012 8:31 pm |
Damn you and your questions. This was one I chewed over whilst in traffic, and in the shower, and before going to bed... It seems like a fairly black and white question that we all ask those who spark an interest. Why are you here? Years ago it was to quench a thirst, to venture out to parts unknown. Now... I don't know. The mental and psychological spark that draws me to a person seem to blur the lines . Is there potential for more? Will he call again? Hence, I've scaled back. Perhaps it's the romantic in me that hopes I'll meet someone in a scenario that rivals late 90's rom-coms, but I keep my options open that perhaps it may just be the guy who's face I'm riding. All pretty girls are a trap, a pretty trap, and men expect them to be.
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What's with the hook up diversion? You know each and every one of your 600 plus readers only has eyes for you. I've watched your (miserably failing) efforts to shake off some watchers and suspect you're at somewhat of a crossroads, crisis, or some other cool word starting with "cr" that has you pondering the "why" of it all. But I've been wrong before.... Q: Are you on this website with the intention of finding a sexual partner? A: Yes, that's the idea, but more than just sex, I enjoy making new friends with whom I can be completely uninhibited with. If shedding those inhibitions, over copious amounts of laughter leads to sex, all the better. Q: Are you just here to express yourself through a blog-medium or via cams/videos and have no intention of actually meeting anyone for sex? A: Not really. I enjoy the exchanges in blogsville, but I see them as virtual preludes to actual friendships. Though I probably won't ever meet most of those I interact with online, that's the end state I like to see in my little mind's little eye. As i said above though, the meetings wouldn't be just for sex, but for friendliness with sexiness. Q: Are you here to be flirted with and validated in some fashion, but prefer to keep sex OFF the table? A: Hmmm, I need to ponder this one a bit. While the flirty back-and-forth here is always good, I don't think I have a need to be validated by it. I think the site provides an outlet for thoughts and ideas that have not many other outlets. Q: Are you here hoping for a relationship? A REAL one? A: No. I'm happily married, though I don't talk much about that on here. We used to have a couple's profile, which is how I got my intro to this site and the interesting netizens here. So, though I'm on here solo now, I'm just looking for friends to add to, not replace, ...
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Living as I do in England, you'd think as it's a small country it would be easier to find a suitable date I've not really been looking for a partner over the past year as it's not been my best, mainly because of a nasty ankle wound, which as It's almost healed now, I won't go into detail about it. I've enjoyed being a flirty friend but now I think it's time to move on. So, I guess I am looking for a real relationship. I do enjoy the company of full figured women even though I'm slightly built myself.
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Well, I guess I'll pick up the gauntlet. Ask a question expect an answer. Am I on here to find a sexual partner? It would be nice! That doesn't mean I'm abandoning my sense of reason or standards though! Am I here to express myself? Of course! Look at my blog. Flirt and be validated but sex is off the table? Flirt, yes, but nothing is off the table. Find a REAL relationship? Not a goal of mine, if it happens so be it. I'm willing to travel, but trips across the U.S. would be less common. Guns are cold.
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Am I here with the intention of finding a sexual partner? - After Seal Team 6 rescued me from the cold, dead grasp of the Wicked Which of the North, all I wanted was meaningless sex. I realize now I need a lot more to be fulfilled. Am I here to be flirted with and validated in some fashion, but prefer to keep sex Off the table? - As my heart and mind battle through a (hopefully temporary) state of confusion, my id, ego and super-ego are all fighting for their rightful place in my warped mind. So having a lil sunshine blown up my ass once in awhile cant hurt. Sex off the table is fine, as long as its on the counter, floor, hood of the car, etc! Am I hear hoping for a relationship? A real one? - For the last few years the mere mention of the "R" word, or the "C" word (commitment you perves) I would take off runnin' like Forest friggin' Gump. As I currently love only myself, albeit 2 or 3 times a day, I think im ready for more!
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2/22/2012 6:36 am |
Of course I am here for the SEX! - I figure I'd have a better chance of finding an open-minded freak like ME in this little pocket of the universe....and I hooked up a few times in just so many months (Yay me) But it turns out the more INTERESTING people -and sexiest womens - are bloggers! who'da thunk that? lol
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Why am I here? Buggered if I know lol I cruise around here watching the happenings and generally making a nuisance of myself I do it quite well too "A full blown basket of hash browns with a steaming cup of 'WTF?" on the side" Enter my Lair: spudsy1000
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First off, there seems to be a lot of what you are asking going on around on many of the others I read...the question "why am I on Affair Link"??? At first, over a decade ago, I came here partly to see what it was all about, and partly as a lark as I never believed that it was possible, well not a good percentagewise possible, to find someone who was both compatible with me and my quirks and would want to take the time and effort to meet up with me...well, unless they were in Texas, or Hawaii, or Afrika, or Yugoslavia... Then I found this part of the site. Posted a few things then dropped out for a while. Came back a few years ago because things in my life were such that I needed to express my inner thoughts on a more regular basis that I was doing. I always was a reader, volumes of pieces and stories. Always wanted to write, and write well so that others could find enjoyment in the things I was experiencing... So, I Read, and Write, and comment and reply. Letting my thoughts pour out through my fingertips. Oh, but yes, I will admit...that if and when some nice Lady were to hit me up...
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Thanks for the pimp - got some very interesting feedback (at last! ) 1. Are you on this website with the intention of finding a sexual partner? 2.Are you just here to express yourself through a blog-medium or via cams/videos and have no intention of actually meeting anyone for sex? 3. Are you here to be flirted with and validated in some fashion, but prefer to keep sex OFF the table? 4. Are you here hoping for a relationship? A REAL one? Since the dynamics have suddenly changed and hubby might be open to more than... well, nothing... My answers are def different from what it would have been last week! 1.Maybe? - As soon as hubby has made up his mind it's OK 2.YESS. Love the blogs, but not the IM and cam scene. Have traveled vast distances for a cup of coffee, who knows how far for something more? 3. Don't need validation of any kind, but welcome to flirt with me - LOTS!! 4. Nope, happily married. Thanks for, once again, a great idea! Something interesting in my life: A surprise on my naked body this morning Come visit my blog to know what I get up to from time to time: [blog 4jasmine2]
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Tap, tap. tap.... Hello, is this thing on? 1. Are you on this website with the intention of finding a sexual partner? 2.Are you just here to express yourself through a blog-medium or via cams/videos and have no intention of actually meeting anyone for sex? 3. Are you here to be flirted with and validated in some fashion, but prefer to keep sex OFF the table? 4. Are you here hoping for a relationship? A REAL one? I'm somewhere around 4ish. Sorta like. Kinda. I talked about this (sorta not as well as I may have. Yes you are right, mostly ) in my own blog. When I first for here I wanted a regular FWB situation; my life was *very* busy and stressful. Things have slowed a good bit and I really would like to meet a man to grow into a relationship with. A REAL one. I don't know that I'm looking for it here, but I'm not necessarily keeping my options as open as possible. I mean some of these guys are more than just eye candy, you know?
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Are you on this website with the intention of finding a sexual partner? ~ I WAS, I HAVE, I NOW DON'T Are you just here to express yourself through a blog-medium or via cams/videos and have no intention of actually meeting anyone for sex? ~ NO, I GO ON CAM SO PEOPLE CAN SEE WHO THEY TALK WITH, BUT SHOW NOTHING Are you here to be flirted with and validated in some fashion, but prefer to keep sex OFF the table? ~ YES I CAN BE FLIRTED WITH Are you here hoping for a relationship? A REAL one? ~ MOST OF US LIVE IN HOPE. (DON'T WE)
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Hey, I'm guessing you have the same experience I do - every time you change your profile picture, you get guys writing to you who you've turned down before, who think just because it's a new picture they haven't seen, you're a new member they haven't written to before... Or maybe the guys in Minneapolis are more stupid than the guys in your area, I don't know...
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I'm here for the free hat. Also, I called it last Wednesday.. it's show your ink week. Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.
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Well hello Dolly... I love this idea. I would say I'm in a similar boat to justforfun5356. I would prefer to find a relationship at this point in time - as she said "I would like it but I don't expect it". I'm tired of the ongoing process of vetting people; it sure would be nice to find someone ongoing who is willing to do more than just hook up for sex, maybe even willing to meet and socialize with my non- A FF friends. That said, seeing as chances of that seem fairly slim, in the meantime I'm open to something more casual. But not overly needy at this point. Hell, it's been since last September, I can probably hold out a while longer instead of compromising my standards Flirting and blogging? They're fun too. I had sworn off of getting a crush on anyone long distance, but sometimes it happens despite one's best intentions.
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Just here to find love my sweet... that is all... usually the sex part comes with it though. Am I right? Thoughts from the Garden...
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I NEED A JOB... CAN YOU HELP ME OUT ? (IF YOU COULD PULL THAT ONE OFF... )
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There was another blogger that used to do this from time to time. I always got matched up with Lulu and some random dude for a virtual 3some. Lulu's great but 3somes with other dudes not my thing. Ok on to my real answer. You bet I want to have sex. It's been over 11 months. When I first came here is was for sex. That I never had. At this point I've more or less given up on the idea of having sex because of this site (unless I happen to get lucky at a bash, which for the record also hasn't happened). So at this point I'm just here to blog. But if a steady play partner or heaven forbid a relationship should happen to come up. I'd be all for it.
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Im just here to make a friend or two... if that friend turns into a real time friend great!... if that friend turns into an intimate friend (read naked and horizontal) so much the better! But it all starts out as a friendship for me, its that mental and emotional connection that blossoms into something deeper. "You've seen my descent, Now watch my rising!" - Rumi Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are forged from it - Michele K.
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Your G-rings Love Connection sounds like a hoot. I look forward to seeing it play out. As for me, I've been here a long time and what I'm looking for has changed many times. I've always been able to find the people I needed here so I always stay no matter what I'm looking for. I have my Viking (yes I met him here) so my primary realtionship need is filled and with us trying to have a baby and all the up & downs that has brought I don't really have the time or energy to devote to anyone else. Ideally I'd like a bi-gf or a couple with a bi-womam to be FWB's with both but like I said I just don't have the time to pursue that or any of our other lifestyle fun. Right now the focus is on my Viking, starting a family and getting our life together started. Once that's settled I'll go back to looking for sex, friendship and more people to love. Kisses, LeeAnn
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