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Confused
Confused I just had a very lovely girl, whom I had been speaking to for the last week online and the phone, get really pissed off at me. She asked me a couple of questions pertaining to the recent girls that I had been seeing here in the ATL. When I explained who I liked more versus the other and why, the girl (from out of town) got really upset. She kept getting more pissed off as the conversation went on. She then stated that she should have never given me her number and shortly after, hung up on me. This really confuses me. You see, I thought we were establishing a friendship. Sure, there was flirting going back and forth, but I truly thought that's all it was. I really had no idea that she might have actually been growing feelings for me in the regard of establishing some kind of relationship. There had been zero talk of ever actually meeting. I'm most upset, b/c she's a very nice girl. I enjoyed our conversations online and on the phone immensely. Had I’d know that any of what I was telling her about my latest dates recently I wouldn’t have even talked about it. Should I approach future encounters as possible relationships? Should I expect that any dialogue could be read into as a test? More importantly, how do I go about gaining this girl back as my friend? I really hate it when I offend people. I just didn’t know that’s what was happening. *sigh* I just don’t understand. |
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12/29/2005 11:24 pm |
Poor man...don't we just baffle you? Give it a few days and try to communicate with her online. If you don't get a response then walk away. In the future you might not discuss going out with others (or keep info to the minimum) until you know if it a friendship or a "relationship" thing.
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Caressmewell - Yes, girls really do baffle the hell out of me! I'm not sure it's always a bad thing, but damn it gets tiring sometimes. I guess it's ultimately worth the fight though! I'm truly going to take up your advice. I just though since this girl has read most of my posts then she already knew about what was going on. I'm kind of trying to take Nooner's approach to this whole thing by not lying about who or what I really am. Thanks for your input! I love your comments!
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12/30/2005 12:04 am |
Men tell me about other women; unsolicited. Surefire way to tick me off--but I don't ask questions I don't want answers to, either.
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Safereturns - I would get mad too if it were unsolicited, but she specifically asked. I'm glad that you wouldn't ask if you didn't want to hear it!
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Life - I agree. I think it was a pretty big test. I always assume they are w/ other men. All I want to know is how safe they are playing. Other than that, I don't ask too many questions.
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Women are very difficult. You never know what they are thinking, partly because I don't think we really know until it surfaces unexpectidly. Maybe this girl you were chatting with, really wasn't aware of her own feelings for you until they surfaced unexpectidly. I can totally see how that could happen, especially when the same thing just recently happened to me. Just continue to be honest. Life is not a test, life is a serious of unfortunate events with periods of fabulous bliss sportatically dipped in between. Give this girl a chance to sort it out, I am sure she will. She sounds very, very nice! FLIRT WARNING: Your very cute by the way... The Naughtiest Nurse You'll Ever Know... xoxoxoxoxoxoxo, N.N.
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NoonerBoy - The nurse is a very sweet lady... I did happen to ask her why she was mad, but all she said was that everything that I was saying was pissing her off, at the time. Since then, we've talked about things and everything seems to be going well. That's funny that you say that about greeneyesatl05 b/c I actually (when I first joined) thought that's who it was you were referring to in your blog. I've since then figured out it wasn't, but the timing of your two blogs are uncanny. You think it was her belly button? I think it's b/c she's very witty and has a most incredible body! I've never really had an opportunity to chat w/ her on here, but she seems really nice. You're right, it's a very good thing, b/c you found Her. Thanks for your insight!
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kelli4u2dew - Well that certainly cleared things up! Thanks for your thoughts...
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