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The wicked witch is dead!!!
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Wow, that's a hard one. Coming from someone who's a voyeur and really loves watching my partner fuck someone,whether I join in or not, that can be a big step. Talk to her. Find out what she gets from it. If she says she wants to see someone else satisfy you, or that she wants to make you happy, or anything that suggests she wants it for you, not her, I would avoid it for the great chance it will blow up in your face. If she responds that it will turn her on, or she's always wanted to watch, or maybe that she really wants a fmf without the stress of initiating, then maybe it's something you'll want to consider. If you want to, make sure that your relationship has grown strong (it's not something I'd do with a recently new partner), and make sure she has a way of communicating that she's not okay with how something is going without it being obvious to the other woman. If she becomes uncomfortable & communicates this to you, you should probably be the one to stop the activity. Try not to make her feel like she's ruining your good time. You might also want the other woman to know that if your partner becomes u comfortable at any point, play stops because your partner is your focus. The only other advice I can add is keep something that is exclusive only to the two of you. For me, it's kissing. It's something between us that no one else gets to experience with him. And if I'm becoming uncomfortable with something & he kisses me, I know that our relationship is his primary concern, and all is good in our little world. Of course if it's not something you want, you need to express that to her because your needs and desires are just as important. Good luck to you!
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