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Understanding Foreplay
Understanding Foreplay Let's delve into the most neglected part of sex : FOREPLAY. Technically I think of foreplay as any activity that occurs as a precursor to the sex act that has the intent of increasing the level of excitement in your partner and yourself or for preparing one another mentally for the sex act. Apparently, it still seems like most men don't fully get what foreplay is all about. One of the biggest misunderstandings is driven by the basic idea (and I think the wrong idea), that the purpose of foreplay is to get your woman turned on enough that she's "lubricated" for intercourse. If men want to give a woman the most intense sexual experience of her life, then it is imperative for Men to start redefining the way they think about foreplay techniques. Sure, good foreplay will get your woman aroused... but more importantly, good foreplay should get her EMOTIONALLY ready to enjoy sex, and EMOTIONALLY ready to experience her most powerful orgasms. This happens when you make her feel, not just sexual, but SEXY. When a woman feels desired, and when she feels comfortable being sexual and sexy in your eyes, then good foreplay becomes great foreplay. Simple things go a long way in conceiving foreplay ideas. It could be when I send her a text message during the day telling her that I just can't stop thinking about her voluptuous body, when I send her an email telling her exactly what I want to do to her later. While passing her in the kitchen, I grab her by the shoulders, spin her around and give her a little spank on the ass and tell her it should be illegal for a woman to be that hot, when I just press her up against the wall and kiss her passionately, make firm eye contact and tell her about my plans for "later". The point is, great foreplay starts prior to actually getting into bed. In other words, foreplay is not really about "foreplay positions" but about "foreplay IDEAS". When the time comes to get sexual and you are getting ready to make love, with great foreplay, she will be quivering with excitement. By prolonging foreplay and delaying a his own pleasure, the man would make his woman feel how bad he needs it as well. Unfortunately, most men simply do not believe in the pleasures of building up pressure when it comes to their dicks. With great foreplay involving mental as well as physical stimulation, the act of intercourse becomes the icing on the cake ! I urge everyone out there to share their thoughts please. AND just so you know....I did not write or create the above content, I openly admit to plagiarizing it from another blogger (not as if people don't post other things here that they have not written)but it says it better then I could have and thought I would repost it here for people more locally to read. The original poster was from India. I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY) |
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7/8/2009 8:05 am |
very nice beautiful
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Its not only what you describe(or the other person), but to create the desire to make love which leads to the passion involved in love making, which leads to the mind blowing orgasms. So yes foreplay before the actually act starts is important and yes!! intensifies the act~
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Thanks for the comments. If this is so very true why is it that so very many men fail? I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)
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While I agree with the idea of extended foreplay, it doesn't always work according to plan. During my marriage my ex often expressed an interest for romance when her libido was at a low point. She said that's what she needed, to feel loved, to feel romanced. So that's what I did. We did the date nights, I did whatever she asked and came up with some of my own ideas. It was almost inevitable that she would change her mind before we were intimate. I realize that she was a unique woman and there were most likely other factors involved. But it was extremely frustrating to do everything that was asked and then some, yet it still wasn't enough, or right, or exciting, or whatever. As for me, I love foreplay, I want to take a long time with a woman. I want to savor every moment of anticipation, but that's just me.....
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PASSERBY, yes there is an exception to every rule and I am sure your EX fits into this catagory. I read your blog, it always seems to me that you are looking for fault from within yourself as the reason for everthing. Is it possible that you can just chalk it up to...tried to do the best you could and it's her problem NOT YOURS if it was never enough? If she was unhappy...she will look for any reason to blame it on rather then the truth...herself. I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)
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Thanks for the comments. If this is so very true why is it that so very many men fail? Is life getting you down? Then Come to My Blog! [blog 05realman21] You will leave with a smile! Check out my profile to find out what a REALman is like! Click here! Join my alien group and get a free anal probe from Splurgee! Click here! Realman & Splurgee Agony Aunts
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Greeny...I have been with a couple of virgins over the course of my life so far...and I gotta tell you...I HATE teaching!!! LOL!! If they don't have even basic skills it makes it difficult to give even normal direction. I think men do not learn to really read the cues their partner is giving them. Listening to the breathing and the moaning, and not sure how many women are vocal, like me, but I tend to tell them harder, softer, here or there...or yes, THAT'S IT!! LOL!! I realize they cannot read our minds, but if they are lacking skills or know how, there are also tons of books out there to help. There is nothing wrong with being well read on a subject. I, myself have read some books, studied things that were of interest, etc, and now with the aid of the internet, it is even easier. I am not saying women are perfect by any means...there are those that are incompetent in the sex department also. I don't want to just pick on men here. I have heard many men complain about their partners skills as well. I have many men complain about anything from how bad the pussy smells, uncleanliness, and how some just lay there like a cold dead fish, not participating at all. Not to mention men always complain they never get any. Which I almost never believe. So, even though I have always been on the heavy side, since I was a kid....once I heard all these bad things, it has always made me strive to NOT be like those women. No man was EVER going to think of me that way. So I asked a lot of questions, and have read things, and love to experiment with new things. So, because of that I have never had anyone complain about my skills. I got off the beaten path here, this was supposed to be about foreplay....but it sort of all ties together. And I am not talking about bondage here....lol. Will save that for another time. Thanks to all for your comments. I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)
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Greeny...OMG...I completely agree. But how rude to openly grade men. That I would never do. I swear...you and I have the same brain. LOL! I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)
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