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Hockey and fighting
Hockey and fighting My vacation time is coming to an end. I go back to work tomorrow after a week and a half off. I really didn't do much with my time but spend it with my family and go to doctor appointments. Some what of a medical mystery going on. I have odd blood results but just when my doctor thinks they have the correct diagnosis...nope. The six month bf is coming to an end. The fight should happen between hockey players but instead it happened at my house after the game. I have been dating the nicest, emotional immature 46 year old out there. He does not communicate his feelings when he is unhappy. He thinks getting drunk and taking Valium is an appropriate way to attend a one year old's birthday party (he was given a pass to not attend). I say nicest because honestly he does very sweet things when it is just the two of us. He remembers the little things. He cooks, he cleans, he does laundry. But he stresses me out. I cannot be someone's source of happiness and he gets very grumpy if I do not want to do anything. If I say I have pl;ans with a friend he gets very grumpy. When my is around he acts like she does not exist. So not okay. I've never been good at ending things, this is the longest I have been with someone since my marriage. He has a lot of things at my house and has a key. How do you have a conversation with someone whom you don't trust their temper? Do you do it in public and already have their stuff packed and in the car? Change the locks? Advice please. |
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Keep it public have friends around keep it sober
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When he gets his stuff just make sure your not alone if his temper is that bad and that scary you could change the locks and ask to see if you can schedule an officer to be there when he gets his things. Don't compromise yourself! You are all you've got!
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