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What Is The Point?
What Is The Point? This is something I've been wondering a lot about lately. Why I'm even on this site anymore, as there seems to be no point at all. My sexual appeal seems to be purely to women, married men and boys in the 18 to 25 age range who think all older women are sexual dynamos who can teach them all sorts of tricks. I'm not attracted to women at all, I don't touch married men and I'm not interested in some who thinks sex should be just like in porn flicks. When did having more than a one night stand come to mean you want a lifelong commitment with someone? Where the hell have all the men with this mode of thinking come from and why are they all attacking me, screaming I want to find a husband, simply because I don't want to fuck sight unseen and just for an hour or two. If you want that, go hire a . She's probably safer than any non-professional that thinks women are meant to be cumbuckets, with no thoughts or desires of their own. I'm just sick of all the shit men play here. I know a few of you are going to tell me I'm being hostile and need to get laid. But you know what? Go fuck yourselves if you're going to tell me that. If all I wanted was to be used as a series of holes, I could get that any day of the week, any time of the day or night. It's not what I want, it's not what I'm looking for, it's not satisfying. I just want to know, when did it become a bad thing to want to have a steady lover, instead of aspiring to become a walking petri dish? |
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thank you my sister...I preach from the same pulpit as you...I am tired of men looking to get a nut...leave that to the squirrels I say...I would love to find a good FB...not a series of one night stands...but how do you know?? I have been deceived so many times I dont know who to believe...its a crap shoot...literally...I feel and live your every word on this subject...smooches u...QueenB
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Guys that sign up on this site think they are entitled to fuck anyone. They think of it as a brothel. I see it in the chat rooms, I see it in the blogs. Basically, guys are pigs. Pure and simple. But between each group of 10 or 20 assholes, there are guys like me and Nightstalker, that don't have that mindset. Sadly, we are the exception, rather than the example. Don't be discouraged. Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?
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Ann, I think you're just attracting what you project, did you ever consider that? Others respond to what they see, so the young boys want a teacher, the married men want something new to taste on the side, and the women want a distraction which they aren't getting with the men they are with. It's quite simple, really. You know as well as I do that men will want what they want, regardless of your whining/expectations/preoccupations. It is what it is. There are some men who are discriminating, but you will have to seek them out as they are probably about as disillusioned with the "system" on Affair Link as you are. The type of guys you are looking for don't run with the "Come fuck me" crowd that fills your inbox on a daily basis. They are harder to reach. I understand your rant, but it's simply a matter of you going after what you want instead of expecting it to come to you. Hail Mary. DIV "My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur
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4/3/2006 12:23 pm |
Hate when they treat us like prostitutes MissAnn.....those are the ones that should be leaving
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4/3/2006 2:25 pm |
How come I always have to fuck myself. Even if I am not gonna tell you that hateful stuff. I am not dead yet
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Well, I find you very attractive, especially from your blog entries (I went back and looked through some of your blogging history a couple of weeks back - it's all great stuff). You've got a fascinating personality and a terrific way with words, and you really come across as an attractive and unique person. (Unfortunately you're just a couple of miles outside my range. Whaaaa! ) If there's any justice in this world you'll be attracting just the men you dream of (rather than the ones that cause you nightmares.)
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You know, I came here to have fun, not necessarily just to get laid... to read blogs, leave comments, respond to the ones left for me... I do enjoy myself. If it isn't fun anymore I guess I 'll leave. And you know, sometimes... the most unexpected things happen...
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4/3/2006 5:23 pm |
Well, I certainly would miss reading you. As to the other, I've never hit you up because I can't afford my own jet. Men with intelligence who want the same things also have trouble finding women with the same interests. All too often it seems distance is a major issue. I have found a lady here and there over time, but gems in people are rare. I gues that's why we call them gems. Independent people are a bit harder to nail down over the long run, don't you think?
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ummm... possibly because you have a core audience who finds the transcriptions of your thoughts to be well worth their time..? I'm not speaking for anybody else but myself, but I suspect that I'm not alone in that sentiment. PS: I'm neither; A} Woman. B} Married. C} A (Barely) Post-Adolescent boy. D} Hostile and attacking. E} A petri-dish preparer. F} (Not All of the above ) . . Been a while since they last let me out into polite society. Resurfacing, catching a breath, & catching up. And while I got my Broad-Brimmed Pimping Hat on, could I cajole all of y'all to Comment on, Alone In A Cloud? It's probably the best thing that I've written! Lately... .
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4/3/2006 8:17 pm |
oh hell girl, as smart and sexy as you are, I am sure that one day your Knight in shining armor will come a trotting up. And no dought there is a lot of bull sxxt to weed through on this site. But hang tough, be yourself, and it will happen.....the redneck
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You know, I came here to have fun, not necessarily just to get laid... to read blogs, leave comments, respond to the ones left for me... I do enjoy myself. If it isn't fun anymore I guess I 'll leave. And you know, sometimes... the most unexpected things happen... It wasn't just about getting laid. If it's just sex, I can get that. I work in a gym. It's all around. I'd just rather fuck a girl's mind before moving on to her body. I work best in a monogamous relationship. DIV "My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur
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I'm very conflicted about being on here. I don't want to be here and i don't want to be on this site, but I am. I'm not looking for one woman after another. As you are, I'm a popular blogger and a blogmie award winner. I'd give it all up for just one beautiful woman I can watch b-movies with on the couch.
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I'm looking for a woman who can kill a deer and gut it, carry it two miles and tie it to the hood of her truck. Send photo of truck. Do you think Man Coulter would be interested? Personally, I would never hit on anyone I didn't think would be interested. My ego's too fragile. I've only just started reading you, but I like you. I would miss hearing your opinions. Wild Crosswords increase your vocabulary. Cross words increase your blood pressure.
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4/4/2006 4:05 pm |
I would miss your satire and witty comments amongst all the lovely things you have to say about the BS here. Actually though, I agree with you on this...not all of us are looking for one night stands OR cumbuckets etc...and more often than not we get the asses or idiots who never bother to actually read a profile before emailing. The rest of people who are here to make actual connections as sexually progressive adults (aka the ones who want to whoo the mind before the body) get screwed in the end b/c of the asses who over email and cause the good ones to eventually leave or just get fed up totally. Of course there are people here just for the blogs and magazine and not to actually look. (I'm still debating on if I'm just here for my friends in blogville or still looking for another woman to fulfill my curiosity and fantasy since I have my man and don't want another anymore) I'm leaving the site end of March. To those who want to keep in touch, see blog for details.
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.....it's a bit hard to take anyone with the handle "ready to lay" seriously on a matter such as this. If "All Men are Pigs", then what are women? You surely don't seem the one to championship a feminist cause, far from it. Some of you women are amazing.....and then you wonder why you only get the "pigs" after you. Look inward. DIV "My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur
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4/5/2006 5:58 pm |
It's all an illusion. It's my space to forge my imagination. It keeps my sanity, but not my bed warm. I gave up on that long before this site. warm huggies Miss Ann... hey, come to FL and visit me, girly
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You are true to yourself...and you are clear. If they don't get it when they read you, that is not about you. You are appreciated here, Missy...seriously. The right one might be just around the corner... timing is an interesting thing... Just a little food for thought............. If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you... {=}
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I agree Ann... you said it all and there isn't much more I can add...
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^You haven't shown me enough intelligence to make it worthwhile to even visit your blog. Your handle says it all. Your comments stand alone, and speak for you as well. It wasn't sarcasm, it was just reality. Unlike you though, I combat with intelligence, not childish insults. Hail Mary. DIV "My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur
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4/8/2006 4:55 am |
Beautifully written. Go to the top of the mountains and let them all hear you. Speak up for all of us. I am a bit confused but I know I too want more than just to be taken as a means to an end for these guys. Just because I enjoy sex alot does not mean I dont deserve something more.
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4/8/2006 7:43 pm |
Excellent post, MissAnn. I'm having similar challenges myself and questioning whether it's worth my time to stay.
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