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Does Age Matter?
Does Age Matter? How much does ones age matter when starting a sexual relationship with someone who interest you? I have been with someone 20years older and someone younger. If we are talking about experiences, they can be worlds apart. Young vs. old has obvious physical characteristics. But I think it also has others that come with age/experiences. Quantity vs. quality. The young want as much and as many encounters as can be found it can be all about the numbers or types of conquest. The older has done that and realizes that there is so much more to be discovered with one person. Exploration vs. Experience. The young are testing their wings, they are learning what they like. For the older one, they are the ones who have learned it is not so much experiences out there to be found, but inside themselves: what is it that I like, what does it do for me and what can I do to make your experience with me more memorable and fulfilling. Scattered Passion vs. Focused Intensity. Younger ones want to do as many positions as the location will allow, to show off their knowledge and variety. Or what skills/techniques that may have been picked up from the latest porn flick. But an older skilled lover can go down on you for quite a long time and be thoroughly enjoying themselves too. These can be the most sensual people because they are not in a hurry, they are intensely in the moment and intensely connecting with their partner. Does age matter? Unless both are awestruck by Cupids Arrow and just know they can’t live the rest of their lives with out the other. I kinda think it does in the long term for a relationship. Even if two people, more than 10years apart have incredible chemistry, for a romantic relationship it will have numerous problems that have to be settled within the couple if it is to survive. Family/friends: who may not approve and make their beliefs known every chance they have. Energy Levels: the older one will always be more tired in life. Procreation: Older men may not want a second or third family. Older women may not have the genetic opportunity. Memories: I didn’t think it mattered all that much that my lover was twenty years older. I have a history degree. Things that were current events in his life, I have general knowledge and sometimes opinions on. But I learned it does sort a make a difference. I was talking with a young one who never grew up with record albums. Wow, now that I had trouble relating to. Electronic music is fine for convenience and quality, but we had 78rpms in my childhood gathering dust with our 33+1/3 and our 45s. And I am not That Old!!! |
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1 post 2/2/2007 9:09 pm |
Based on your past experiences you judge men prematurely.
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When are you going to post again? I like to read your thoughts.
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