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Making Love to a Friend with Benefits?
Making Love to a Friend with Benefits? I miss the whole experience of lovemaking. I'm not much into simple, mechanical fucking, even though once in a while the mood strikes. I love to touch, caress, embrace, kiss, nibble, lick, moan and penetrate with sincerity and patience. But is this too much with a friend? It sounds like something you would only do with someone you were in love with. I wouldn't want to send the wrong signal to someone. What are your experiences and thoughts? |
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Bueller? Bueller? Anyone?
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12/23/2007 7:34 am |
Fyllis has given the best and most thoughtful answer on this topic I have yet come across and I fully agree. I have several friends that I would love to have intimate moments with, but they're not at that point. I am looking for such, because my wife and I have lost the physical intimacy, yet I still need it as much as air and the emotional component is a vital piece of the needed satisfaction. I wish more had Fyllis' attitude...we would be much happier, more content people!
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I understand where you are coming from. You are passionate about your love making and sometimes that's misconstrued as being in love. Been there before and the unfortunate outcome is pulling back on the experience, which eventually kills it for both of you. My guess is that you need a like minded person for your experiences and plenty of honest dialog. That way, everyone enjoys.
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11/5/2011 9:23 am |
Very True, there should be no taboo subject when thinking seriously about someone you are thinking of getting involved with.
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Being poly I come at this from a slightly different angle. The above response is correct. There IS love between friends. If you are truly friends, the love is there. But if the primary relationship is a strong and true one, it only adds to it, not detracts from it. Your soulmate will always be your soulmate, sex or no, but lovemaking is simply a beautiful physical expression of the love one feels for another, whether it be the love of friendship or a lifebond. This is why I make the distinction between play partners and friends with benefits. They truly are two different relationships.
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